9 things that a successful woman should not apologize for
'13.05.2019'
Source: GoRabbit
I do not know about you, but I'm tired of apologizing all the time. I do it all the time. And I argue that most of you do that too. We were brought up like this, it is firmly rooted in our minds - to apologize for something, especially if our next step in the career ladder or the next stage in a relationship depends on our apologies.
Let's respect ourselves more and less apologize to other people? Especially before those who never would have thought to apologize to us, although we deserve it, writes GoRabbit.
So stop apologizing if:
1. You do not agree with anyone's opinion
Having your opinion is normal. It should be so. Do not shade if your opinion does not coincide with the opinion of your girlfriend or boss. If they are normal people, they will understand you without any problems.
2. You express your opinion
You can keep your opinion with you, but why don't you speak out? Especially if it is the opposite of your interlocutor.
3. You refuse to date
You owe nothing to anyone. Why then do you apologize to an unfamiliar guy, if you do not even want to spend time on a cup of coffee with him? It's okay Just say no.
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4. You refuse sex
If you do not want something, you should not apologize for it. You're the mistress of your own body, so everything is fine. And if he does not understand this, then it is only his problems.
5. You ask someone to move
If you have to be where someone has been standing for a long time, just ask him to move. Politely. In this case, do not apologize.
6. You are lonely
If you have no relationship, you shouldn’t apologize to your mother for not giving her grandson to her. No, you do not expect a prince, just everything has its time.
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7. You look "too" ...
You may look too fat, too beautiful, too sporty, too smart or too stupid - it doesn’t matter. You're the one who you are, so you shouldn't apologize for that.
8. You are emotional
Why do you apologize for your emotions? You are sad today, because a friend's dog died, but there is no need to sob over it in the toilet, and then all evening apologize to your partner that you have red eyes and nose like a tomato.
9. You have a passion for something
You adore pizza and you can eat it in kilograms, or you are a fitness maniac who runs 10 kilometers in any weather. Someone in your environment is not satisfied? Well, do not apologize to him. To each his own.
