Male look: 12 dangerous 'secrets of seduction', which women learn gloss
'05.05.2019'
Source: Fresher
Recommendations semi weak - why you should not blindly believe the advice from magazines, trying to charm a man.
One of my last dates failed. During dinner, the girl vehemently straightened the leg of the glass. I was scared for her. And what if scabies begin? Then in the taxi, she very passionately whispered something in my ear. Again scared. But already for myself. In particular, for your ear. Do not think that I am so frightened. It just blew from this annoying artificiality. Quite a sweet girl so desperately and clumsily tried to charm that it happened quite the opposite, writes Fresher.
Grieved. So how do I know where the legs of this whole situation grow from. On duty, often monitor women's magazines. And I understand that passionate whisper, erotic biting of lips, violent winding of curls on a finger are often from there. These tips give young ladies under headlines like "15 proven ways to seduce a man." Girls believe gloss. They take ways into service. Alas. After that date, I decided to do a good deed to both men and women. The first to tell how to recognize in a girl the enthusiasm for advice on the “hunt” for the stronger sex. And the second is to prove that in reality all this may look quite comical.
1 trick. Laugh at all his jokes
Laughing is better when there really is a reason. This is another old saying said. We like your laugh. It invigorates men, gives confidence, discharges the situation. It is very important. But do not overdo it.
2 trick. "Shoot" eyes
Our dear ones, you and without these algorithms usually manage to establish eye contact that excites us. But as soon as you start to act according to the pattern “forward, to the side, down, forward”, the look loses the main thing - uniqueness. But the eyes - a mirror of the soul. We are glad to see sincere interest in them. But not instruction.
3 trick. Drop something and erotically lift it
Of course, if you do not specifically dropped something, it is better to raise it with dignity, gracefully. But needlessly arching his back, waving his hair - obviously too much. Rather, it will make a man feel awkward.
4 trick. Finger-stroke the glass
Again - do not overdo it, please. Otherwise, you risk looking vulgar. It is unlikely that you are achieving this.
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5 trick. Share his hobbies
Honestly, not many men find attractive girls screaming "go-oh-oh-oh-ol" in the sports bar. If you really like football, hockey, horse racing or fishing, then no problem. But it is not necessary to divide men's interests. That's why they are male. We like that we are different!
6 trick. Try to eat something erotically in his presence.
There is a joke: "The girl, in order not to seem easily accessible, ate a banana with a knife and fork on the first date." This, of course, is extreme. But some lovers have a particularly erotic can achieve the opposite effect. And look frankly vulgar. In this case, there is a quick and sloppy - also not the best option. The golden word is still a measure ...
7 trick. Be unpredictable and mysterious.
Of course, this is wonderful when a woman is full of surprises and mysteries. But only if the surprises are pleasant, and the riddles are not artificial. And yet - I will reveal to you our secret: all girls for men are a priori riddles! So, it is not necessary to whip up misunderstanding of female nature.
8 trick. Play with your hair, show your neck
Quite a harmless trick. If in moderation, of course. If not - a man may worry, why are you constantly in the hair fumbling.
9 trick. Try lowering your voice, breathe
We actually like different voices. And low, and ringing. Rather, it is important that the girls do not speak foul language and do not say “ring”. It is better to follow this. And in an intimate setting, the voice itself will become lower, sexier. There are no ideas here. And the falsity in the voice is unpleasant, it will only alienate.
10 trick. Tell me by phone that you are in the bathroom
Pretty harmless ploy. But still, can do in a relationship without a lie? Even so innocent ...
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11 trick. Ask a man for help and loudly praise
A man likes to help a woman. It is a fact. A man rejoices at your praise. This is another fact. But sometimes it is felt that the request is far-fetched, and the excitement is exaggerated. And we are against false relations, you remember?
12 trick. "Mirror" man
Someone manages to "mirror" subtly and imperceptibly, while for someone this attempt is like a mimicry. But even if the trick was successful, then the question is not in the sense of proportion, as in most other points. Here, rather, it should be unpleasant for a woman herself that a man falls in love not in her, but in her reflection (remember about Narcissus, yes?) Copy chosen all the time will not succeed. Therefore, relationships built on this trick are almost always doomed to problems. It is better to be yourself, right?
Request. The first, the only, the main
To sum up, the men are not against all sorts of female tricks. We love your flirting, flirting, subtle seduction. But only if it is all organic, in moderation, without falsehood. Therefore, girls should not blindly trust the advice from magazines and the network. Coquette lives in every woman. But how do you want it to be unique, and not forced by the instructions! Naturalness, sincerity of sympathy, self-sufficiency are, perhaps, the main weapons of seduction. And this applies to both sexes. I wish you all love - sincere, gentle, dizzying!
