Husband threw a pregnant wife in huge debt, and she received an incredible surprise.
'03.11.2018'
Source: Fabiosa
Amanda and her ex-husband were married for about three years. The couple lived in Sydney, Australia, set aside money for a down payment on a house that was supposed to be their family nest, and dreamed of children. The girl suffered several miscarriages, but nothing threatened her last pregnancy. When only a few weeks remained before the birth, the husband went to another.
A person practically cannot plan his life in advance. Today he can have a happy family, a beautiful home and a steady income. And the next moment everything changes: he is left alone with his problems, thrown out, like a used thing, tells Fabiosa.
This happened to the heroine of our story: her husband went to another woman when Amanda was in the last stages of pregnancy. She has nothing left but a house and a huge debt for him. Anna, a girlfriend’s friend, turned to a local radio station, KIIS, to give Amanda the opportunity to share her story on the air.
Our heroine told about her situation, and at the very end of the program, the presenters launched a video - a virtual tour of the girl’s house.
However, not all the items in the setting belonged to her. It turned out that the radio station employees contacted many partners who agreed to support Amanda for the first time after the birth. People donated household appliances, paid in advance some running costs and even things for the newborn.
There were many surprises, but the main one was waiting in the oven: it turned out that 10 000 dollars were collected by non-indifferent people so that at first Amanda could pay the mortgage. Needless to say, the gratitude of the girl had no limits?
According to some reports, about 10% of men cheat on their pregnant partners. Among the main reasons are the following:
- The desire to charm and conquer, which is explained more by habits and instincts, and not by the interesting position of a woman.
- The lack of mutual attraction and intimacy.
- Relationship tensions due to pregnancy, as well as emotional and physiological changes and stress caused by it.
- Confidence in their impunity.
- Loneliness and lack of communication.
- Of course, we can not exclude the sudden emergence of new love.
Nevertheless, the fact remains: a man is gone, what should a woman do?
- First, you need to focus on yourself and the child: rest, practice your favorite hobby, visit the doctor more often, regularly visit a doctor.
- Secondly, to enlist the support of loved ones. Regardless of the gestational age, there are things that a woman cannot do: she needs physical and emotional help. It is important to stop feeling sorry for yourself at one point.
- Thirdly, you need to try to establish contact with the wrong man and determine, if possible, his participation in the upbringing of the future baby.
Finally, if the partners ’desire to reunite and start everything from scratch is mutual, it is worth trying to do this, discarding reproaches and accusations.
Amanda's situation is not unique: many men leave pregnant wives and continue to live as if the relationship with them was not there. Our heroine helped not only loved ones, but also completely strangers. We hope that thanks to their support, she quickly regained control of the situation.
But do you think it is worthwhile for women to fight for husbands who left them pregnant? And what else can these fathers be guided by doing such things?