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How we look for ourselves in immigration

Sergey Evelev

writer, TV and radio host

'25.03.2019'

I talked with an acquaintance today. He and his wife are looking for themselves. And they are looking for a long time and diligently. Were in Judaism, different sects, now - in the area of ​​Hinduism. We visited a lot of trainers, coaches, psychoanalysts, read a lot of books, took individual and group classes. In general, the guys are tirelessly working in the field of search, but so far, judging by my shallow observations, it is completely fruitless.

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I gave the following example in a conversation: is it reasonable to look for a four-storey building of the Mercedes concern with a thousand workers at their workplaces in the stomach of a shark? And in response, fortunately, he received - no. Then I asked a number of the following questions. - And if, for example, you look very carefully? Again, no. Good. And if you call a search group, consisting of the best experts of international class, the entire Interplol and scientists, Nobel Prize winners for war and peace? Again, no. And if you offer the finder one hundred million in a good, stable currency? Again, no ... So then, what do we do? If you go there, I don’t know where and look there, I don’t know what, then, most likely, you will not find anything and you will only waste your time? Right? The interlocutor agreed with me.

I had to explain my analogy. Human problems are divided, I think, into only two parts: YES problems and NOT problems. Lack of legs, for example, can be a problem or a reason to suddenly become a fighter for the rights of all legless, and at the same time armless. You can drown in depression and torture everyone with it, or, conversely, travel around the world and explain with your hands and feet that they have no problems, since they have arms and legs. For some, freckles on the nose, too small a chest, stunted muscles on the arms or insufficiently whitened teeth are a problem. Someone has little money, and always, regardless of how much there is.

But if we discard the problems that are not problems (here you need to sort everything out very neatly so as not to make a mistake with the box), then those that will remain (there will be few of them, in fact, sometimes there is only one) - are in you. That is, in yourself. That is, not in lectures, books, training by everyone from everything and for everything, but personally directly in yourself. A filthy splinter sits inside and interferes with life. You and possibly everyone around you. So what to do with her rubbish? They ask me.

Once again from the beginning. It is absolutely necessary, like a miner, without the right to make a mistake, to understand whether it is a problem or "freckles on the nose", which, besides you, everyone around you likes. But if it is already clear to you that it is and that it is a problem, then there is only one way out: to destroy it, burn it to the ground, tear the cap like a tuzik, spread it like jam on bread. And for this there is a deadly weapon, for the use of which you do not need anyone, ever and anywhere.

Since no stranger will do this laundry of your dirty (or even half-clean) laundry. And should not.

This is solely your prerogative and your work. So we take out of the sheath this thing and ... we thrust. What are we taking out there? And then after that we thrust? Questions we take out there.

And we begin to stick them. A short list of questions posed by: Who decided that this is a problem? Why? When was revealed? Where was it before? Does it weaken or increase with time? Where, how, when, in what situations? What causes aggravation or who aggravates it? How do I feel at the moment of its manifestation (that problem)? And after that? Do other people have the same? And how do they cope with it? How does it look from the side? If someone came to me with a similar problem, then I would advise him / her?

Having pricked her, the devil, a thousand times with questions, we go for a walk (maybe, for aggravation, add about fifty questions ourselves, so as not to miss anything, just in case. Come from all sides, prick the vile to death, so that some holes remain, like in good cheese). Everything is done, and therefore - Hurray !! And you probably thought that now you will need to look for answers?

Not. Not necessary.

Hooray again! Go rest.

The work is done. The drug in the body is running. It will find the disease and begin to dissolve it or bring it to the surface.

Well, if the lyrics and poetry aside, then starting from this day, the Cosmic Kitchen will begin to fulfill your orders. More precisely, prepare answers to all (or to one, the most important) questions. There is only one difficulty - do not miss the answer. It will be written on a piece of paper in Chinese cookies, inside (in a Chinese restaurant they give out). Or, driving along the road, read the answer on the poster, on the post.

Or, turning on the TV, radio - suddenly you hear a phrase specially prepared for you, or a book falls from the shelf on your head, or a pop-up on a web page suddenly jumps out, and there the phrase is - and it is the answer. If you look for it somewhere, you will never find it. I think so. But to prepare for his arrival, that is, you need to answer. He who opened his ears, let him hear. And who opened his eyes - accordingly. And right now, when someone read my essay, two and a half coaches with a psychopathic approach were immediately out of work. Just kidding. Not everyone will read it. And no one will be left without work. But it is possible that someone, perhaps, liked the train of thought.

Use. Take it. Take action. Everything is free. On a voluntary basis. And good luck to all.

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