Why Goat Bayan: Marrying a Foreigner
'02.06.2017'
Here conversation and about men, too, will go, not only about women, although they, again, are heroines. And why not - they are heroines.
And the tale begins as usual with the fact that the hero, the prince, that is, decides that he already has enough to mess with the frogs and it is time to write out the overseas princess from across the sea, of course. And the prince is often deeply over twenty-six, which he does not think about, since all his thoughts are far away in search of the one and only beloved. She supposedly will love him (and why not?) And will appreciate (finally, at least someone), and then the local citizens somehow everything is already long and not very ... about love, but more and more somehow it will be about his banking account.
So, he searches, he looks for arrows, and other tools of the modern princess hunt also sets in motion, and one fine day there is one that can be described in a fairy tale or described with a pen as it was actually intended. The beauty of her, or even her complete absence, does not affect us, since we work with what we have, and there is what he sees and with that inиDiennie go argue, still on Mordasov shlopochesh. That's the same thing.
Well, he brings a local, who is on a horse, a girl from across the sea, marries her and begins fluffing her tail, defiles along the streets and avenues, demonstrating not so much the fluffiness of the tail, as his valiant prowess, in connection with a young bride, she is a foreigner, she is a wife, she is ... and much more, which he invented for himself. And the newly arrived herself at first, of course, behaves carefully and with shyness, since the country is a stranger, habits, customs, and everything else - too, and you have to adapt. Does he love her? This is a rather rhetorical question, and only the Lord knows the answer. And she? The same answer. Well, we’re not talking about love here, but rather about life, and we’ll get back to it.
And in their family life, the period of "uncontrolled burning," as it sometimes happens, comes to an end and the second period begins, called weekdays, which always replace holidays. And he learns a lot about her, about which he didn’t know, and she, having got used to it, pondered, studied the language a little, and began to realize that she precisely described the horse, but concealed details about the prince. Its age, for example, was reduced by ten-twenty (she, truth, and even slightly trimmed her, but this has not yet been revealed). The prince’s health is not so hot, but he promised her horse riding, skiing and conquering the Himalayas and other nearby peaks on foot, that is.
Their children are already growing, although it may not be clear with the love of parents for each other. Yes, and well, her, that love, here they clung, they are not up to it. And there comes such a critical moment in the life of our couple, when he can already live without her, although not so long ago he said that he could not imagine a second and a sigh alone without the “princess” of the most beloved and, accordingly, the only and unique.
She, in turn, is also ready to try to take a break from him and move out, or, as an option, to evict him. And here in full force "apple trees and pears" and all the accompanying fruits and vegetables are in full bloom, in their garden there is an under-spoken word, under-understanding and in general there is not much more, which cannot be said at once, because it is a shame, and to why rinse dirty laundry in public ...
In a word, the sudden loss of love, or the understanding that it never happened, leads them straight to the places of the search and return of love, that is, to the court. There they have fun for a long time, study the law, study each other, swear for real, and they do not hide any feelings that have been sitting for years like an itchy splinter in their chest. And it usually ends not very much. The house is divided or cut in half with a jigsaw. Cars, furniture, bank accounts. He - naturally having studied a dozen Russian words - calls her all, in a row and in a mix. She, in turn, both in court and around him, reveals all his secrets regarding finances, real or far-fetched, potency - real or promised, and much more, which is not customary to talk about on the street, about men in general, and about husbands, even former ones, in particular.
But she is very angry, because she made a mistake in choosing her, she didn’t put on a white horse and now she has to decide what to do, what to do, where to live, whether to return home with two foreign-made children, or try to survive here in the country their birth.
This script is not original and not so rare and occurs. Its value for those who have not yet set foot on the slippery path of "love with a foreign subject" is that you can consider someone else's life without risking your own. Although there is no one hundred percent guarantee that your own will be as bad, or vice versa - good, still no. But, no matter what, the experience of the people has accumulated, and it can be taken into account.
The main conclusions, which here by themselves suggest themselves, are as follows:
Any love passes, and on what remains of it (habit, patience, respect, mutual understanding or lack thereof) will have to build a family.
It is known for certain that the bride, as well as the groom, change after the wedding. Here we could write a whole treatise on this topic, but we will accept this postulate simply on faith, and the doubters can interview those who have followed a similar path, they still remember everything and are able to testify.
It would be nice, of course, if it works, not to rush with the children and taste family life to the fullest until all the “chilling details” that no one knew about are revealed, but here it turns out that ...
Because the kids are sorry, they do not respond well to scandals in the family, not to mention the scandalous divorce. It will definitely leave an imprint on them and will not improve their own personal life in the future.
Despite the popularization of the idea that the earth is flat, round, everyone lives nearby and the boundaries are erased beyond recognition, all people on earth live in groups, flocks, tribes. They live according to different rules, laws, following different traditions, often so dissimilar that what in one clan is encouraged and rewarded for, in another (possibly on the opposite end of the earth) they are stoned, sometimes to death. Therefore, dear girls and women, be careful and careful in choosing a partner for a long-term residence, especially if he is from a completely alien world, tribe, sect. Personally, I am not against international unions, but only warn those who forget that creating a family-unit of society is often not an easy task, even including in the experiment a neighbor on the desk, with whom everything seems to be clear and understandable. This is only later, over time, you learn that he is both this, and this, and especially another, the most disgusting, which I would never have thought of ...
And introducing a completely unknown ingredient to the theorem, grown on foreign soil and, accordingly, soaked with foreign juices, you always risk to be surprised at the dish that will be made with its help. You can also not rejoice at the fact that you yourself, as a dish, turn into being influenced by foreign components, which can be absorbed into you with air, water, thoughts, ideas and much more.
And so, in general, marriage with one's own or not very one's own is a useful, necessary, important, sometimes delightful or just cute business. So go for it, dear ones, and let's hope that you, unlike the case described above, are lucky. Nothing bad will happen, but on the contrary, everything good will happen, as you tell us about. And together we will rejoice and write another fairy tale about you and about those who, despite the warnings of various pessimists and infidels, are alive, healthy and happy. We will write about those who proved that there are still miracles in our life, and you will never guess where he or he, on a white horse, lies in wait for you in order to love, make happy and reward you with luck.
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