She found her husband on the other, almost died, but again learned to be happy: the secrets of Nadezhda Babkina
'21.03.2020'
Source: TUT.by
“I absolutely can’t imagine myself retired, watching TV shows from morning till night,” Nadezhda Babkina once said. And she was not deceiving. On March 19, she turned 70, and she is still active and efficient: she manages to tour, broadcast and even travel with her young spouse. About how she succeeds and why the secret of youth is not in plastic surgery (at least according to Babkina herself), - in the material TUT.by.
Doctor of Arts and Honorary Academician
Most of us know Nadezhda Babkina from The Russian Song and The Fashionable Sentence. But in the resume of the singer there are much more interesting points. Say, Nadezhda Georgievna received several diplomas: first she graduated from the Gnesinsky College in two specialties, then she studied at GITIS. In general, Babkina is not just an artist - she is also a conductor and director, moreover, a professor, a doctor of art history and an honorary academician.
Surprised? We, too. Nadezhda Georgievna herself was also surprised: she said that in her youth she did not even dream of such a track record.
“I planned a different life for myself, grew up as a country man. Even now the neighbors call me: "Nagy, come and look at your little farm." I have a dacha in the suburbs, I am drawn to dig in the ground. You see, when I arrived in Moscow, no one believed in me - not even my parents. And I graduated from three institutes. I didn’t just make myself, literally forged myself, ”she admitted in an interview.
Wrong husband
No, this is not about Eugene Gore (with whom, by the way, Babkin is still not painted). And about the first wife of Nadezhda, drummer Vladimir Zasedatelev.
They met at the airport: it turned out that young people fly on tour on one flight. Upon arrival, exchanged contacts, then, already in Moscow, met again, and a little later decided to get married. In 1975, their only son Daniel was born.
In a marriage with Zasedatelev, Babkina lived 17 years: the family officially broke up in 1991. Recently, the artist admitted that in fact their relationship had waned far earlier - even at that time when Nadezhda was pregnant. The reason for the discord was the betrayal of Vladimir right in front of his wife.
“People always came to our house,” Babkina recalls that night. “They drank all but me, because I was about to give birth.” Overnight in the yard, no transport. We still have a girlfriend girl. At some time, I just picked up, I wanted to go to the toilet. The picture is this: I see that my husband is lying, this girl, and there is stirring under the covers. ”
According to the singer, at that moment she literally wanted to go out the window. Only one thing stopped from the fatal step - the son.
“Danila kept pounding, as if asking:“ Mom, stop, ”Babkina recalls with tears. “I understood that, and it didn't matter to me who was there and with whom.” It was important for me to save my son. "
Since then, she says, with her husband, “there were no intimacy. We lived like neighbors. I cooked, fed, smiled. Then no one taught me to leave. ”
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Without looking at others
In 2003, the life of Nadezhda Georgievna sparkled with new colors: she had a new boyfriend. It was then still 23-year-old Eugene Gore. Babkina herself was already 53, so the novel instantly became the main topic for gossip.
According to the singer, this bothered her. But only at first.
“At that time, I thought a lot about what people would say about our union, because this is not welcomed by society. Then she exploded: “Why on earth should I look back at others? This is my life! ”- she notes.
But Eugene Gore, admits Nadezhda, is still worried.
“Each time he was very worried, because he has his own activity, his own business, he is being realized. Never in his life had he used my name. This is the only person who - while living, being with me, communicating - has never taken advantage. And he doesn’t want to. ”
Recently, Nadezhda Babkina shocked everyone with news: she and her common-law spouse do not live together. It turned out that the matter was not family disagreement at all - everything was fine in their pair. It’s just that Nadezhda Georgievna is more comfortable in the “husband for an hour” format.
“When I'm here (in my apartment. - Note Lady) one, they say to me: "You are bored there." Never! Sometimes I just deliberately want to be alone. I can walk here naked. Of course, I'll turn off the light. So that suddenly they would not spy from the Kremlin from a telescope. What if you like it? " - the artist laughs.
Photoshop and plastic
Nadezhda Babkina is constantly accused of either abusing Photoshop, or a love of plastic surgery. And we can understand those who bring these charges. After all, even on the singer’s instagram (and not at all in the paparazzi pictures), she changes at an incredible speed.
Babkina herself is trying not to get involved with “sofa detectives” and not to enter into discussions. "So I want to say:" Calm down! "Apparently, it remains to agree with their speculation, only then they will lag behind."
And about what procedures he resorts, he says this: “Once a week I try to get on biogens - a microcurrent therapy procedure. Lie down, bliss. After you leave with the feeling that one half of the face is extended, and the other is calm. Before shooting, I’ll visit all kinds of body wraps, hydromassage ... All in an adult way! ”
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The secret of youth
And in general, Nadezhda Georgievna believes that the secret of youth is not in cosmetic procedures, but in relation to life.
“We must live in love, harmony and harmony,” the artist shares her experience. - Do not be mad at anyone, but smile and rejoice. Yes, there are g *** yuki, but pretend you don’t notice! Surround yourself with lucky people. They are able to share energy, and the right thought, direction will definitely come to you ... I can’t digest the aching people who come up with problems from nothing. You try to help him, and he, like a vampire, drinks the last of you. You get up and send it in three funny letters. It’s easy right away! ”
