Time for training and criticism: recommendations of Alexander Lytvin for September 2020
'05.09.2020'
September is the first academic month not only for schoolchildren. It is also good for getting information about your own shortcomings.
Today I wondered if I have any characteristics that require serious correction. Do I have any disadvantages? Alas, there are many. I want to be tall and slender! I want to! Why do you want to? And because so people decided: tall and slender is a virtue! So, genetically lucky, and you are already worthy! What is worthy? And in order to be considered at least cute! No, this is not a disadvantage, it is dependence on beauty standards. I see a huge number of tall and slender, at my consultations I see, with a bunch of questions and complexes ... It turns out that one still needs to apply something to growth and harmony to feel happiness.
He reasoned and dismissed one drawback! If the desire to be tall and slender for the convenience of the user is fine. For example, I go to the store for jeans, and they are all 5-6 heights, well, anyway, Oksana, a seamstress, needs to call with a request to adjust the trousers. A box on the mezzanine - you have to drag a stool to take it off, but this time ... But on the other hand, a guy flew with me somehow, tall and slender, in economy class - the width of the chair was enough for him, but there was nowhere to put his slender legs ... He twisted and twisted and sighed, and his legs remained long, in jeans that did not require correction, but he was not lucky with the plane, the price of correction there is too high, it’s not to shorten jeans, business class is expensive now!
Why am I all this? Yes, to the fact that flaws in appearance and proportions, of course, seriously spoil our life, but most of all, our life is spoiled by obsession with beauty standards. If you are not a tin soldier, one of thousands, that's good! And the shortcomings, they are primarily not in weight, height and eye color, are, they are in the lack of the ability to please people. I like it not for beautiful eyes, but for beautiful deeds. Everyone cannot like it - tastes are different and thoughts are different, and ideas are different. But there is one human quality, independent of circumstances, that the vast majority of people like. It is simple and understandable for everyone - kindness. The Russian proverb works: "according to clothes (height, weight, eye color) they are greeted - they are seen off according to their minds!"
So let them see you off with a desire to meet again soon.
September - I just want to teach someone.
All September are the same, but the current one is September for all September! The criticism that has accumulated not over a year, but over the past 12 years is being realized! Expansion for criticism, and the best time to listen to it. Of course, some people find it difficult to listen to the truth, most often this happens because they equate the level of criticality and the level of love. There is a time for compliments and there is a time for criticism. In September, criticism is aimed at harmonizing those who are with us, but do not forget about your weaknesses. It is best to start with yourself by asking other people's opinions. They won't lie.
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Love, family relationships
Many of us are glad that school is far behind us and there is no need to study. But we are so arranged: if we have a tendency to development, then people like us; if we refer to our previous experience and merits, we will be considered to have reached the limit and stopped in development. Such a “diagnosis” is easy to obtain by asserting that teaching a scientist can only be spoiled. Spouses always have a lot to learn from each other, not to mention those couples whose relationship is at the very beginning. The phrase of the month sounds simple: "I want to consult with you!"
Children
In September 2020, kids will go to a strange school with a hybrid approach to learning. The "sword of Damocles" of the pandemic will hang over the usual way of life and thoughts for a long time. Chaos has touched all spheres, and education is no exception. The period that we are going through has significantly changed our empathy and made it possible to train intuition, which means that children will be less cunning and will be able to express everything they think to the teachers.
Parents will have to work hard to educate their children. Don't rely on teachers and tutors.
Health
In September 2020, close attention should be paid to the state of the ligamentous apparatus. All types of tendons and fascia have lost their elasticity, so the first thing to remember is that in September we are most like a rusted iron lumberjack. Falls are fraught with serious sprains and fractures. Older people require close attention, the fragility of their bones increases at times in September, and the excursion of the lungs will be limited. In this regard, the consequences of infection with COVID can be very serious.
Food
Winter is ahead, which is why protein foods will be absorbed better than ever before. Meat gives aggression, and aggression carries with it the will to win, including the victory over one's own depression, caused by a misunderstanding of the current moment and the absence of any hints of planning life. Grilled or open fire meat in September is a must, unless you are a die-hard vegetarian.
Work
Usually chickens are counted in autumn, but this September is categorically not suitable for analytics, since the main events of this year are concentrated in December. We will not rush, but we will deal with the ergonomics of our work. In September, it is quite easy to identify more or less important areas. However, in September it is never too late for anyone to study, and if there is an opportunity to raise your qualifications, you must use it.
In September, the criticality is quite high. Conflict at work will overtake those who have decided that they have reached perfection and do not need to improve their skills. Such statements will be seen as a tendency to abandon personal and professional growth, which will certainly affect your future career.
Leisure and travel
There is a time when we move around the world, and there is a time when the world rotates relative to us. Now is the time. We watch the events and learn, it is better to do all this online.
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Money
In September, there is no need for careful control of the expenditure of funds, basically there are not so many of them. And if you buy something, then most likely it will be the right thing. Careful selection of goods and control over the balance will save a lot of money, but it will be difficult to get bonuses at work, since the bosses are more prone to savings. Diligent workers can count on bonuses, but those who consider themselves an ace are better off keeping quiet!
Beginnings
The most successful projects will be those related to non-ferrous and ferrous metals, especially processing, production, sale, repair of equipment, machine tools and mechanisms, production of jewelry and high-precision metal metric tools and hardware for various purposes, from self-tapping screws to nail pullers.
Vehicles made in September will feature excellent build quality, and therefore durability. The same applies to other mechanisms.
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