Three of the most stupid things: what they always do on their wedding day, and then regret
'07.06.2021'
Source: Rambler
Wedding day is called the happiest, but more often it is one of the most difficult days in the life of the bride. Only after the celebration you realize that the choice of location, guest list or bridal suite at the hotel was dictated by traditions and stereotypes, and not by your desire and common sense.
Fortunately, those who have not yet married can learn from the mistakes of others. Author Rambler tell you what couples often regret after the wedding.
1. Invite people who do not want to see
I am convinced that the wedding should remain an event for close people, and not for all friends and distant relatives. To invite someone out of politeness is absolutely meaningless. As a result, you do not interact with this person, he is unlikely to bring a good gift and at the same time it costs you money.
2. Do complex hairstyles
Extensive hair, fluffy lacing, tons of lacquer - these canons of wedding hairstyle are still followed by many brides. Few feel comfortable with a flower bed on their heads. But you have to spend this all day and still half the night to wash off the remnants of former luxury. The wedding dress, the bouquet and the very fact that you are the central figure at this celebration will make you beautiful enough. Choose a concise, well-fixed, comfortable hairstyle, and you will look perfect even at the end of the evening.
3. Do not prepare speech
The response word of the young is a good tradition that we should learn from European weddings. Just do not rely on your eloquence. Even if everything is all right with him, you will get tired, get excited and say something like “thank you all, everyone is free.” Make your wedding speech a special moment at your celebration. Let her be a little ridiculous - in order to bring down the extra pathos, a little touching - so that the female half of the guests shed a tear, and the male one came out for a smoke, and very sincere. To do this, you need to think in advance about what you want to say and who is definitely worth mentioning.
4. Do not take vacation
To play the wedding on the weekend, and on Monday to return to the office is not the best idea. You will be monstrously tired, and you simply will not have time to enjoy the new status of your relationship. Take at least a mini-vacation to have a good rest before the celebration and after it. Immediately after the first wedding night, jumping into a plane and rushing to the honeymoon can also be a mistake. If you plan a few quiet days at home with the analysis of gifts and lazy wallowing in bed, then after the wedding you will thank yourself for this decision.
5. Organize a wedding in the open in the heat
Prolonged heat - a guarantee that the weather is unlikely to deteriorate, which means you do not have to stock up on umbrellas and blankets. But to spend the whole day on the street under the scorching sun in make-up, dresses, costumes is cruel. When on the street 30 degrees, only an air-conditioned cafe will save you from stuffiness.
6. Allow other people to make important decisions.
Remember that in choosing a menu, decor and host for the wedding can not even rely on his own mother. Either find the strength to control all the important moments of the celebration, or relax and do not expect anything from this evening (this is rarely possible). The reverse error is not to be able to delegate. If you, like many brides, take care of every little thing alone, you will go crazy and turn the best day of your life into hell.
7. Rent a room in a luxury hotel for the wedding night
Beautiful and meaningless tradition. I don’t know if there are couples who use the first wedding night for their intended purpose, and don’t count the donated money and fall asleep without force. Although if you and your boyfriend are so conservative that this is really your first night together, it may be worth making it special.
8. Do not leave yourself time to enjoy the holiday
In pursuit of the perfect wedding, the newlyweds forget that this is their holiday and they too can and should enjoy it. Try not to think too complicated scenario, where you have to jump every 10 minutes to participate in the next ritual. Let yourself enjoy a delicious meal, laugh and relax a little.
