Top 10 details on a date that are not really important to men
'27.08.2022'
Source: Good Men Project
Going on a date, we “make beauty” for two hours and choose an outfit for the same amount of time, and when we meet with a man, we are afraid to say an extra word so as not to discourage interest in ourselves. Is it really necessary? Good Men Project says: men in fact almost do not care about the details to which women attach great importance.
1. He doesn't care how perfect you are.
Of course, a man is not a child, he understands what efforts you have made to look good at a meeting with him. And he appreciates it, believe me. But if a man is here, he wants to spend time with you, no matter how flawless your arrows and hairstyle are. Don't be too hard on yourself.
2. He pays no attention to your extra pounds.
Most people want to change something in their appearance - and men are no exception. Seeing you, the man realizes that under the clothes you are unlikely to be two or three sizes smaller, and calmly refers to this. Therefore, it is not necessary to complex because of a few extra pounds, it will not give it such value as you.
3. A man does not care about the difference in income
A confident man pays attention to your personality and how he feels around you. Therefore, he is not worried about the size of your income. It is more pleasant to communicate with a kind and intelligent woman of modest income than with the “snow queen”, even if she has at least a dozen successful businesses. And vice versa. Your personality matters, not income.
4. He will not be embarrassed if you drink a glass of wine
Many girls think that drinking alcohol on a first date is bad manners. But a grown man is unlikely to object (or take advantage of the situation) if you drink a glass of wine, perhaps it will help both of you feel more comfortable and at ease. An important rule: do not overdo it.
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5. A man doesn't care if there is sex today
Two common and diametrically opposed misconceptions: no sex for a few months after they met, and "they all need only one thing." In fact, any options are possible between two adults, including today or next time. If a man likes you and wants to continue the relationship, it doesn't matter if it happens on the first or fifth date.
6. He does not consider your first step shameful.
Especially when it comes to SMS messages. The girls think that writing first is to show their own weakness and feminine despair, but men do not treat it that way. A man will be delighted with your message if he wants to continue communication, perhaps he does not write himself, because he does not want to look obtrusive.
7. Men don't care how we look in the morning.
Many ladies send their gentlemen home even before the onset of the morning, at least several times - so that they do not see their "real" face early in the morning, without makeup and hair. But, according to the men themselves, this is completely unimportant. If he wants to wake up with you, he considers you beautiful.
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8. He will not look at your plate in the restaurant.
There is a misconception that you should eat little on a date. Many men do not like it when a woman pecks like a bird. If you love steak, order a steak. It is not necessary out of decency to change your eating habits, which in the future will still manifest themselves.
9. Men do not confuse curses
On one condition - if you do not use obscene vocabulary as the main one. Of course, the use of swear words does not decorate anyone. But in some cases, to be honest, one or two words can break. Be sure: if this happens occasionally, a man will not judge you.
10. He does not expect perfection from you
An adult understands that people on the covers of magazines do not look like this even in real life, not to mention everyone else. Therefore, there is no need to worry about the fact that you have an extra centimeter here, and a mole here, that your hair is not long enough, and your nose is too wide. If a man is interested in you, everything else is unimportant - he sees you beautiful and is confident in your attractiveness.
