About the beautiful word of mouth: how billionaires' wives actually live
'20.01.2019'
Source: Wday.ru
Absolute idleness and sleep before dinner, and even then it’s worth waking up just to go to Tom Ford, who personally came to take measurements for you for new dresses, as some imagine the life of the wives of oligarchs. But reality often turns out to be much tougher than we see on Instagram.
The wife of a businessman Ksenia Tsaritsina discussed with Wday.ru The most common myths about a beautiful life. Looking ahead, we say that something has turned out to be true!
Myth 1. Wives of rich men can sleep before dinner - a cook will prepare breakfast, babysitter will send children to school
Indeed, many rich wives have such a situation. I, too, sometimes can sleep a little longer. For example, last night my husband and I were at an important event, we returned home late. I definitely will not jump out of bed at five or six in the morning! I will not sleep, and it will affect the family: I will look bad, my mood will deteriorate. But it all depends on the situation. If my child asks him to go to school or cook him breakfast, I will definitely do it. And the babysitters also want to sleep! So we have everything as in an ordinary family. If the child does not have enough attention, we will give it to him.
Myth 2. You can not work at all, money and so much
This is definitely a myth, because money does not happen much! There are many options - you can help your husband, and this is also work, and you can develop and learn. If you are doing your favorite business not to the detriment of the family, then why not? Even if you already have a lot of money. One should strive not for money, but for growth and personal development. I want to work and be sure to learn, even as the wife of a millionaire. It is important to remember that situations are different, a lot of things happen in life. A person must represent something to himself. And in the future you need to be able to get out of any situation. I am categorically against my own salons, the money for which the wives are asking from their men. As a rule, this is just a waste of money, and the business does not pay off.
Myth 3. Wives of oligarchs dress only in the most expensive clothes from eminent fashion designers and disdain to pay attention to the mass market.
Personally, I do not care what kind of tag on clothes. All I want is for me to like her, to sit beautifully. And which brand is the tenth thing. I can order a new dress on the Internet, from people who sew clothes themselves, or buy things in the same ZARA. I can change clothes several times a day. Imagine how much money it is? And how many things should I have? After all, cheap things wear out, get bored - I throw them out. A brand throw a pity. There was a case - in Dubai, I asked my driver to buy Abay for me. He brought several, and I chose one, it cost about a thousand rubles. I wear it all the time, and everyone says, “Wow! Where did you buy it? ”It is important how you feel in clothes, you can also wear a thing from the flea market so that everyone will ask what designer she is from. On the contrary, the rich often save on many things. And clothes - this is not something worth investing in. If you look at men and women who really represent something, you can see that they dress normally. They don't care what they think of them. So for me and my family, this is a myth. But fakes - this is nonsense, it is better for the same money to buy a thing from the mass market.
Myth 4. Rich girls don't count money and can spend as much as they want
This is ridiculous! If a girl does not consider how much she spends, she will not be rich. Or spend all, or her husband kicked out. I myself watch my expenses and consider everything. I work as an accountant for the whole family!
Myth 5. It is not necessary to be smart: men choose only in appearance, and education does not interest anyone
Here everything is ambiguous. After all, all men are different. Smart girls choose many, but not all. Anyway, everyone has different concepts of "smart girl". For many, smart is with a higher education, and this is far from an indicator. Men choose those they like. Appearance plays an important role, but the internal component, character, habits are also important. If a girl knows five languages, it may or may not help. The rich are looking for a girl who will be loyal, wise, decent. Men already know a lot, they definitely don’t need to be taught. Yes, learn, read books, learn to speak correctly. After all, a million of those who pursue the money of successful men. And they are just looking for love and respect, nothing complicated.
Myth 6. The wives of millionaires do nothing around the house, even the bed is made up by the maid
This is - I personally do not do anything like that. But there is a lot of other chores that lie on my frail shoulders. I make sure that there is order everywhere, I select furniture, I myself invent a design, I buy new things. And nobody will do that for me. I do not sit on the priest exactly, because it is important that everything be as I and my husband like. But there are those wives who do nothing. And it happens the other way around.
Myth 7. Millionaire husbands, too, are not particularly working, because they have already made their money and can afford to travel all year round with my wife
This is exactly nonsense! My husband works around the clock. And our friends, wealthy men, work around the clock. Weekends - once a week, and even less.
Myth 8. Rich people are arrogant and communicate only with the same successful people.
There are indeed arrogant people, but rarely. But communicate with similar, successful - this is true. Think logically: you need to develop, and therefore surround yourself with people who are better than you. So it's true, but not at all because of arrogance, but for growth.
Myth 9. Social networks for popular rich beauties are led by another person, and often a personal photographer travels with girls
Nobody touched my Instagram once, it’s just me! But sometimes you can take a photographer to travel if you really want to.
Myth 10. A rich husband does not take part in raising children, he simply has no time. Yes, and mom devotes more time to herself, because there are nannies
Of course, the man takes part in education. He lives with his children, constantly sees them, communicates. How can he not bring up his sequel, the future? Of course, successful men communicate with children much less than those who just sit at home. But this is right - a classic, correct family: the father of the breadwinner is engaged in global things outside the family and brings prey to the house, and mother improves comfort inside the family and raises children.
