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Why are we reaching out to astrologers and why are 'quick answers' not working?

Marina Hitt

journalist, author of the project HOT HIT NEW YORK

'27.11.2018'

What motivates people who seek advice from astrologers, numerologists and psychics? Who is the “lukiest” customer for this kind of specialists? And why don't express replies work? We talked about this with the coach and author of the course for women - Rina Pusti.

Photos from Rina Pushti’s personal archive

When a person has some kind of problem or there is a question that is eager for an answer, all thoughts go to find a solution. But, unfortunately, in most cases it is thoughts, not actions, to which efforts and time should be applied. Many, as it seems to them, facilitate their task and turn to astrologers, psychics, numerologists ... Everyone wants quick results.

“People are looking for answers because there is no inner support,” explains coach Rina Pushti. - I need to lean on something. And express answers are crutches. I don’t understand, I don’t hear myself, so I run to someone so that I can lean on something ”.

BEST CLIENT

How can you characterize those who apply for express responses? Imagine their portrait. As a rule, these are people with low self-esteem.

“Lack of confidence in oneself, in one's abilities,” explains Pushti. - A person who did not take responsibility for his life on himself. He sincerely believes that there are third-party responsible persons who shape his destiny and influence it. Maps, planets, but not himself. The position of the victim - nothing depends on me. I will go and find out what awaits me. "

Such people are the most profitable clients, as they will run endlessly on all sorts of consultants to make sure that they have the most extraordinary situation in which no one can help. They want the world to revolve around them, sympathizing with and warming up the necessary energy. By this they live.

HIT PARADE

The topmost topics are money and relationships. They will always be popular with both men and women. The third place is the search for your vocation, in other words, "what is the meaning of my life?" And, if we talk about esoteric directions - damage, the evil eye - everything that indicates that someone else is to blame for the troubles, but not the person himself.

Not in vain the most popular ads read: "I will remove damage and the evil eye, attract money and a husband."

Benefit and harm

“Remember, it’s important who you go to,” advises Rina. - Many psychologists are simultaneously mastering the science of astrology in order to expand their arsenal with the help of other tools. A professional will immediately say: "Everything is in your hands." And not that the planets stood up like this - period. He returns responsibility to the client. He says that there is a predisposition, but how it will result in real life depends on you. "

Since the market is represented by those who earn good money, they use the pattern that people have always dreamed of knowing their future and it is easier for them to hope for manna from heaven than for themselves.

If you do not treat everything else as the ultimate truth, then we can assume that there is a benefit from working with professionals - you get motivated and inspired at the exit, illuminating your path with a flashlight. This is doping, but on condition that you yourself know where you are going, and you do not justify the received information by your action or inaction.

HISTORY OF LIFE

“I had a real case at work: a fortune teller told a woman that she would never earn much money,” says coach Rina Pushti. - Not only do the majority of people in Russia have a mentality of poor people and attitudes that prevent them from living with dignity, so also fortune-tellers "put pressure" on the patient. And since you are not confident in yourself, there is no muscle to take responsibility for your life, what happens? You put a thought into your head, because the fortuneteller is an expert and the number one authority in life. And with this attitude, that woman lived for over ten years.

When she began to search for her vocation, we worked out what prevents her from realizing herself today, because the client was very talented. It turned out that she so believed and accepted that thought as some kind of truth, and relied on her in the future. She lived in the position: “and what can I do if I am not destined anyway?”.

WHY EXPRESS ANSWERS DON'T WORK

“Why am I against express answers when people come to different specialists and say:“ I want to know my calling in one hour ”? - the expert explains. “It doesn't work because the answer is of no value to you. Let's take an analogy: money that you got easily is less valuable than money earned by hard work. In order to realize your calling, you have to invest so much in yourself, at least energy, desire - to search, explore your inner world, find uniqueness, and not when someone tells you about it. It was always strange for me: how can any person know more about you than you yourself? Even if there are some planets, numerology, and so on - that systematizes knowledge about people. Well, how can anyone know more about you? It's a paradox. "

If people are looking for answers on the side, then it will be very difficult to realize their vocation. And when they invest resources, this question becomes so valuable that there is motivation for further action.

RECOMMENDATIONS

No matter what the reader believes in: to the Universe or to God, everyone has a source of wisdom that keeps all the answers.

A person should not ask someone else what is the meaning of his life; he should not look for answers to his questions from others and take them for his own.

“I think you need to work hard to find your inner voice and live with it all your life,” says the coach. - I am sure that the purpose of every person is to get to know oneself, to love, to reveal one's talents and uniqueness. I recommend everyone to invest time in getting to know the most important person - themselves. Trust this process and have fun. There is nothing better and more valuable when the answers to your questions come by themselves, when you begin to feel this support inside. Then you become stable, any adversity passes by. You don't need crutches anymore, you just stand there. "

About the expert: Rina pushti - existential coach, author of an online course for women to find themselves and their vocation.

Photos from personal archive

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