'I will never forgive this': why did her husband not allow Nadezhda Rumyantseva to give birth
'19.06.2021'
When Rumyantseva was pregnant, her husband sent her to a known address. She was able to realize her maternal instinct only with her stepdaughter. "Cream of the Society" on Yandex.Zen. Next - from the first person.
I think all the time to what extent men in our society influence the fate of women. And women, even the most talented and hard-working, obey their husband's word, although they go against themselves, against their own desires.
Here is Nadezhda Rumyantseva. The most talented actress. Her role as Tosi in "Girls" resonates with special warmth in me. Pretty, with character and a positive outlook on the world. Such, it seems to me, was Rumyantseva herself.
Nadezhda Vasilievna's relationship with her first husband, Vladimir Shurupov, did not work out due to professional jealousy. At the time of their marriage, she was already offered roles, she was in demand, but he was not. The male ego could not bear this alignment.
With her second husband, Willie Hshtoyan, the actress lived until old age. And she devoted her whole life to him and his daughter. Rumyantseva had no natural children. She was engaged in raising Khshtoyan's daughter from a previous marriage - Karina.
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Why the girl did not grow up with her own mother is unknown. From the age of four, Nadezhda Vasilievna was engaged in her upbringing. Karina's dad was present in her life insofar as. In the USSR, he held a respectable position, served as a diplomat. He was constantly on the road.
In Khshtoyan's view, the woman had to sit, for the most part, at home. Engage in everyday life, raising children. Such a classic scenario: mom is beautiful, dad is working. It is for this reason that Rumyantseva stopped acting in films.
Is it correct? I don't think so. It is a crime. It's one thing when a woman worked in the office shifting pieces of paper. It did not bring much benefit to society. If he wants to do everyday life, let him. But Rumyantseva ... Talent. How much joy and happiness from the films she watched could she still give to the audience?
What about children? Nadezhda Vasilyevna did not manage to shake her own baby, enjoy its smell and first smiles. Health allowed me to become a mother. And not a single child. But his own spouse did not allow to give birth.
“I will never forgive myself for this. Nadia really wanted to give birth, but I was against it. Disappeared at work, was wound on business trips. Therefore, unfortunately, she had abortions. While I thought that we still have time, the years flew by, ”- explained Willie.
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Like this. It becomes sad from such obedience. Femininely angry. And here's what's interesting. In an interview, Khshtoyan admits that while Rumyantseva was actively filming, she earned more than her husband. This, of course, jarred him.
For the sake of love, the family with Willie refused both work and children. This is self-sacrifice. It's hard for me to understand this. She was probably happy. She raised Karina as a worthy person. Now she is already an adult woman, she is married, she has an adult son.
Karina works in a large publishing house and lives in Moscow. In a three-room apartment that once belonged to an actress. Her adult son, the grandson of Khshtoyan and Rumyantseva, lives and works in Singapore - he charters yachts.
In the summer of this year, it became known that Karina and Willie put up for sale the country house of Nadezhda Vasilievna. It is located in a prestigious area. The realtor estimated the cost of the site and real estate at 42 million rubles (more than 537 thousand dollars). Rumyantseva's relatives do not have the financial ability to support him.
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