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On which side of the bed should the wife sleep

'23.05.2021'

Source: Rambler

Family relationships are always difficult psychological work of two people, the most significant for each other. And this is not only about legal rights and conditional agreements. Sometimes, on which side of the bed the husband and wife sleep, their intimate life and even the common future depends.

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Regarding evolutionary psychology

The agents of the Israeli secret service Mossad have such a method: always closely monitor which side of a woman a man sits down and especially goes to sleep, he says Rambler. On this basis, they conclude about the true relationship in this pair.

The fact is that over the long centuries of evolution, men and women have formed their own defensive and trusting sides of the body. Agents believe that any person only “believes” in a certain ear with his words and his sympathy, or vice versa, his readiness for defense, subconsciously demonstrates with which side of the body he turns to his opponent.

If the man is not left-handed, then his right hand, side of the body and ear are always unconsciously, but ready to keep the defense and not to believe anything. Therefore, if a man chooses the side of the bed himself and lies down to the right of the woman, then he, most likely, does not trust her, or at least treats her with wariness.

For women, the “combat” side of the body is on the contrary, the left. And if a woman chooses the side of the bed and lies to the left of her husband, then the Mossad agents safely make a conclusion, this is not a loved one. The ideal couple should hold each other's side of trust, that is, the man lies in bed, touching his wife with his left hand, and she, respectively, turns to him on his right side. Thus, the spouses are, as it were, a single whole; trusting your partner and holding "defensive positions" in relation to the outside world.

In terms of primitive traditions

The English scientific journal Open Access, “Connection with Nature,” citing Jim Horn, the former head of the Sleep Research Center at Loughborough University, United Kingdom, published his findings on which side of the bed was best for spouses to sleep. The scientist proceeded from the deep national traditions and ancient Eastern practices. Almost all European nations have a stronger understanding that a woman usually goes or lies in bed near her husband’s right hand, and holds his palm with her left.

Meanwhile, in ancient times, for example, during the times of the primitive communal system, young rivals always were in the cave to the right of the man. The woman on the left had cradles with her children. The scientist believes that the neglect of this seeming trifle in traditional European society has already given rise to many problems. The family is one energy whole, and the polarity in it has long been confused.

As a result, a modern man constantly perceives his woman as a rival in business and simply in solving everyday problems. And a woman who, in antiquity with her left hand, rocked the cradle with a child, more and more often she unconsciously treats the man on her left as a child who cannot decide anything and do it without the advice of her mother. Ultimately, this negatively affects the institution of marriage, increasing the number of divorces worldwide.

Based on medieval superstitions

Most recently, the manufacturer of luxury bedroom furniture in the UK decided to find out about various sleep habits from its potential target audience.

Oral testing of several hundred middle-aged Englishmen was conducted to improve products. They all answered the question from which side of the bed they prefer to sleep. It turned out that, regardless of whether these people were married or not, whether it was a man or a woman, almost all respondents said that they prefer to sleep on the left side of their bed. The volunteers who answered the questions justified this by saying that for some reason they sleep so much better, and in the morning, in such cases, they are always in a good mood.

Customers of the study turned to psychologists for clarification. They provided the bedroom furniture manufacturer with their research on this topic. It turns out that during the Middle Ages in England there was a widespread superstition that said that those who sleep on the right side of the bed often come in evil spirits and bring anger on people that are difficult to get rid of.
Over the centuries, superstition has taken root in the subconscious of most of the inhabitants of the British Isles so much that, until now, there is often disagreement between spouses and who will sleep on which side of the bed.

On this basis, the customer of the study began to promote the appropriate advertising idea to the masses - people who are married should sleep separately, it would be better for their comfort and psychological health, and for the manufacturer of sleeping furniture, too, because then customers will buy two beds.

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