Who does not work, that ... successfully married: how famous housewives and career women live
'05.02.2019'
Source: Eva.ru
With the development and popularization of social networks, many of the wives of successful men have become not just a collective image, but also a very real category, causing healthy envy among millions of women. It is thanks to their microblogs that originated in the open spaces of online communities a rather interesting topic: should a woman who successfully married get to work?
Their profiles are full of bright pictures of beautiful life, writes Eva.ru. Elena Perminova, having many children, not only traveled around the whole world, who the beloved man threw at her feet, but also became her in all star parties, while remaining an exemplary mother and wife.
Oksana Samoilova is popular in the network no less. And even though the wife of the musician Djigan cannot boast of a friendly picture taken with Rihanna, they observe her life with no less curiosity.
To list the star ladies, whose main merit in general has become a successful marriage, can be long. But the main question tearing social networks - and whether such women need to work? Or shouldn't you even try?
Of course, opinions are polar. Some claim that only a stupid woman, having a successful husband and unlimited financial opportunities, will agree to donate a family and go to the office for an eight-hour working day. Others believe that in our unstable age, marriage can collapse at any moment, and an unfortunate dependent girl will have a hard time. Remember Victoria Klochkova from the TV series “Don't be born beautiful”. This is what a kept woman could look like when a rich spouse suddenly decides to find someone younger.
However, no one excludes a different scenario. Julia Baranovskaya, for example, faced with difficulties, managed to overcome them and today she herself can provide three children perfectly. Now, the famous TV presenter is unlikely to abandon the profession, which largely saved her in the most difficult time.
The main argument of women in their careers, even in the most successful marriage, is freedom and independence. When we have our own money, we can save it or invest it. And in a difficult moment to make a soft litter out of them so as not to hurt your forehead, falling towards reality.
Proponents of social life parry - they say, and from the pocket money of her husband, you can put something on a “rainy day”. Or persuade him to open any beauty salon or a restaurant in which a successful wife will become a nominal manager.
But if you figure out, is this not a job? If the spouse delves into the business processes, then she works. If she doesn’t go into it, then when she and her husband leave, she is inevitably awaiting bankruptcy. Agree, to control the ship, not knowing the basics of navigation, is very difficult.
The second argument of the careerists is self-realization. No intelligent man will be able to withstand a stupid wife for a long time. Let her be at least Miss Universe, but if he has nothing to talk about with her, he will find the one that can support an interesting conversation. And self-sufficient women always aroused the admiration of the opposite sex. With this, however, it is also possible to argue.
To be a full-fledged person, it is not at all necessary to work. You can learn. Engage in creativity or charity.
At this all intelligent discussions can be completed. After all, when we run out of arguments, we simply resort to extreme means - we turn to the individual. As a result, the ladies exchanged courtesies, calling each other loser (working) and stupid hens (idle). On what and went to different corners of the ring, think about the words of opponents in silence.
But in fact, what is better: to see the world in pink and fully rely on the will of the beloved man, or to stand firmly and be independent? I think no one can answer this question better than us. We have to admit that both categories of women are right. Each in its own way. And loyalty to the choice depends only on the character of a woman, for whom, in many respects, her successful husband loved her.
