How to make him think about you constantly: simple and effective rules
'01.05.2017'
Sometimes illogical desires go to a woman’s head. Well, for example, you suddenly wanted your man to not get you out of my head and not go crazy with it. Quite a good and legitimate desire. We will tell you what you need, and, conversely, do not need to do so that your man is bored and counted every second, waiting for a meeting with you.
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Speed is inappropriate
In no case do not accelerate the rapid development of your romance, even if you really want to. The effectiveness and reliability of this rule has been proven by centuries of application: if a man is not given what he wants, then a man, if he is a man, will begin to achieve it. Anyway, he will start thinking about you constantly. Nobody says that he (a man) needs to be marinated in his own thoughts and desires for six months. But just not agreeing to what he wants right now is the right way.
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Do not impose. It is impossible!
I really want to write him nice messages and constantly be in touch. This is a normal desire. But it is absolutely impossible to overwhelm him with megatons of messages of romantic content. Romance is not very fond of obvious manifestations. Therefore, you can get the opposite result from what you wanted. Do not turn the beautiful time you experience into such shackles of love. In addition, you can not deprive a man of the illusion of freedom. He should understand that he can run away to the forest for a couple of days and cry while embracing a tree, for example. Sometimes a man needs his time. Not to go “left”, but to meet with friends at the bar, go fishing, just to spend time alone with yourself. Need to act a little thinner.
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Introduction to the rear
If we draw an analogy between relations and military maneuvers, then we can safely say that in war all means are good. Therefore, it will be appropriate to penetrate the rear, that is, into the immediate environment of your man. Friends - charm them, become your own person. Advise them the best bars or good experts at whatever. In this case, it works that his close people will remind him of you, especially when you are not around. And these reminders will most likely be positive and with the wishes not to miss such a beautiful woman like you.
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Do not feed his ego
Remember one axiom: a person, when he is comfortable and good, takes everything for granted. Why should he think about you if everything is good and smooth? In his head there will be a feeling that everything has happened and there is no need to strain anymore. You don't need to stroke his head and indulge his vanity all the time. There is no need to instill in him the confidence that you are comfortable, flexible and reliable. You're not a washing machine! Who will think about their own, albeit beautiful, washing machine? That's right - nobody! But entering into disagreements and arguments or besieging his possible narcissism, you will create a kind of contrast in your cloudless relationship ... Make them brighter. The main thing is not to overdo it!
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Do not try to be different
And let everyone say otherwise. Even if they say at trainings that you must be different from everyone else, and constantly surprise him. I'm afraid that the people who are promoting this, first of all, do not quite understand what they are talking about - well, what does it mean, “to be different from everyone else”? All people are different. Even if they are very similar. And what is it, “not like everyone else”, with a fool? So this is a very slippery slope. Secondly, for your man you are no longer like everyone else. And behaving unpredictably and not being yourself, at the same time, is a dangerous tactic. In a word: you do not need to make yourself into a person who you are not really, because in this way he will not see you, but something false and unreal. You should not multiply your own essences.
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Do not provoke? Provoke!
Who said provoking is bad? Irritation is generally natural and normal. Thanks to irritation, humanity still lives. Another thing is that this should be done at the appropriate moments. For example: provoking him on an unforgettable night or an unforgettable quarrel - do you feel the difference? Irritate, provoke ... But in moderation, and in pleasant things for both of you. He will often remember, having allocated a separate area of memory in his brain.
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Don't be sensitive
You do not need to constantly think about who he is there with now, when not next to you. No benefit but harm! With jealousy and self-doubt, you can mess things up. There is no need to wind up yourself and, as a result, poison your relationship with your doubts. Because even the person who is most in love with you can be repelled by suspicion and whining.
But easy to be you just have to. First of all, for myself. Because, ease appeals to people, and people always reach out to that.
Remain yourself, do not force events, keep him on the slight hunger of his own desires, give him freedom - let him be sure of this, and you will get a man next to you who will value the time spent with you.
