How to attract the perfect man into your life: a step by step plan
'16.01.2018'
Source: ThoughtCo
Finding the ideal partner is not easy at all - in many respects because many people cannot clearly express and even imagine what kind of person they need. ThoughtCo tells how to correctly formulate the image of an ideal partner, so that the chances of meeting him grow significantly.
Let's start with the mistakes that everyone usually makes.
Uncertainty in desires. You ask a neighbor to buy you a blue blouse. You do not say what size you need, what fabric you want or even what shade of blue you had in mind. She comes back with a white striped polyester sweatshirt that sits on her, but does not fit you. And you wanted a pale blue chiffon and, of course, personally for yourself ... At the same time, you cannot blame the neighbor for a mistake, because you didn’t explain the purpose very clearly, did you?
The same problem arises when you want to attract the perfect partner. If you cannot clearly say aloud and even mentally imagine what qualities he should have, then there is no point in expecting an ideal that will emerge from this fog of desires and requirements. What to do? “Order” is correct!
How to attract the perfect man:
Step 1. Assess yourself in the present moment. Where are you here and now in your life? How did you get here? Yes? Are you well with yourself and the surrounding circumstances?
Step 2. Assessing past relationships. What traits and actions made you happy, and what made you happy? Are you ready for a new relationship and everything related to it?
Step 3. Clearly highlight your needs. Find the reasons why you need a partner: getting rid of loneliness, looking for financial guarantees, emotional support, and so on. There can be no mistakes here: it is important to understand the purpose for which you are looking for a couple in order to find one who is needed.
Step 4. Remember that you cannot influence someone else's will. This means that focusing on trying to mentally attract and “fall in love” with a particular person is counterproductive - pay attention to the “ideal personality” you need.
Step 5. Similar attracts like. Think over all the traits you are looking for in a person (kindness, generosity, honesty, etc.). Do you have the same traits? As a rule, we attract people with the same features that are present in ourselves.
Step 6. Write your wishes on paper. Imagine buying a car. You choose those characteristics that you like: height, weight, eye color, hair color, etc. If appearance is not a decisive factor for you, details can not be specified. But remember that any “open doors” are an invitation to accidents, not always pleasant ones. What are you waiting for? A joint adventure, love, maybe a wedding, family, children? Write it down on paper.
Step 7. Secure your intentions - ask. Everyone does it in his own way, one approaches a prayer, another meditation, the third prefers to just say out loud, expressing his statement for the Universe into space.
Step 8. Release your request. Let your list live your life. Trust the work done and the world around it. Try to stop doubts within yourself - they only create obstacles.
Step 9. Act! Thought forms are fine, but you should not expect that sitting on a sofa in front of a laptop, you will wait for the queue of men under your doors. Of course, the courier may look to you or someone will make a mistake by the door, but this is the exception rather than the rule, if we are talking about the second half. Going out to people and communicating, expanding the circle of communication, visiting new places and not closing on people, you significantly increase your chances of meeting exactly who you need.
Helpful hints
Be careful with desires - they come true. Try to represent the downsides of your requests. Do not make the mistake of writing down, for example, “rich husband”, if you do not want to attract a curmudgeon who counts every penny, including that spent on you. Instead, ask for a wealthy man with a generous heart.
