How Cameron Diaz convinced everyone for years that she was childfree while she was looking for her husband and trying to become a mother
'07.01.2020'
Source: Woman.ru
Really free woman or “traitor” of childfree movement? Now, when the 47-year-old Cameron Diaz first became a mother, netizens are discussing the evolution of her bold looks and trying to understand what is really behind the big words of the actress, writes Woman.ru.
“I was never drawn to become a mother. It's much easier with me. Having children is very difficult. I am not going to be responsible for anyone other than myself. Accepting this made my life easier. A child is a daily work without breaks and holidays for eighteen years. In this matter, I am what I am. I'm all good. I have achieved a lot of things, and I don’t care what others think of me, ”Cameron Diaz told American Esquire in the summer of 2014.
After the release of this interview, the 41-year-old at that time actress was elevated to the rank of child free icons. Diaz devoted much time to caring for mental and physical health, learned to accept her age and inspired followers around the world. Her “Body Book” appeared much earlier than the zozh program of Gwyneth Paltrow, another Hollywood blonde and part-time apologist for a healthy and informed lifestyle.
From the pages of her non-fiction book, Cameron talked about the passage of time, about the strength of age, about femininity and the ability to choose whether to give birth to children or not, take care of themselves or not, get married or, again, not. In order to truly become free (or create an impeccable appearance of such a state), Cameron had to defeat many self-limiting attitudes and overcome his fears.
“I like being 41 years old. I like it. So much unnecessary just disappears from your life. Mostly fear. This is the best age. That's when a woman knows exactly how to work, and she already doesn’t care about many things. You just stop being afraid. Don’t worry about what men think. And that time fixes something irreparable, ”Cameron shared in the same interview.
Women around the world wrote Diaz letters in which they thanked for their support and inspiring example.
And there was something to inspire, because for the position of childfree many still have to make excuses in a democratic America. Even clinical psychologists cannot yet come to an unambiguous conclusion on this issue and continue to explore the topic of conscious abandonment of the seemingly natural need for procreation.
Opponents of childfree could say with a grin: "She just had a normal guy." But the "man" was - good, Cameron Diaz never complained about the lack of male attention.
On the subject: 47-year-old Cameron Diaz first became a mother
Jared Leto, Justin Timberlake, Benji Madden - these are just some of the men who are in love with the actress, who at one time were ready to start a family with her. In January 2020, unexpectedly for everyone, Diaz announced that she and Benji had become parents. By the way, the actress met Madden already then, in 2014, when she did her childfree cuming out on the Esquire pages. Did Cameron think that after 6 years she would become a mother in spite of everything that she had told reporters with a calm smile of a relaxed lioness? And what was the opinion of the chosen actress, who became her husband and father of the first-born?
“I talked a lot with specialists - doctors, nutritionists, fitness instructors, physiologists, psychologists - with people who have dedicated their lives and careers to studying the human body and its capabilities,” Cameron wrote in her book. The philosophical stone of vitality, femininity and the management of this world is all about the body, which at 47 is able to give birth to the first and probably long-awaited child.
Now many fans of Cameron Diaz, who joined her fan club after allegations of a conscious renunciation of motherhood, are at a loss.
They were just protected by the "wing" of the popular, successful and self-confident Hollywood beauty, and now she (and her "wing") are famously recorded as "traitors", in the "club of ordinary women" who dream, like all "feathered" ones, to twist nest. But is Cameron so fake in her remarks? And is it true that childfree is forever?
“I feel that it’s best for me now,” Cameron said 6 years ago about life without children. You have to agree, from that “now” to today, a lot of time has passed and, like any person, the actress and her views could change. So is it worth it to blame her? When Cameron wrote about the possibilities of the body and a harmonious way of life, she mentioned the changes that awareness brings with it.
“Your energy is transformed into positive, aimed at creation and creativity, and not at worries about appearance or extra pounds. Just think about how many interesting things you can do and create if you feel free, strong, confident! ”
It seems that the actress managed to become so free and strong that now she managed to “create” something truly amazing - a girl named Reddix. And do we condemn the stellar mother, who in her years decided on a real feat?
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True, according to rumors, the actress spent literally all her free time in hospitals and was in touch with the best doctors in the world for the past 5 years. Insiders say that Cameron and Benji “went through all the circles of hell” to conceive a child: hormone therapy, IVF, and even alternative medicine methods. As a result of a desperate struggle for a new life in 40+, Cameron became stout and began to look pretty haggard.
“Wherever she went. She constantly consulted with doctors about pregnancy, ”the actress’s friend shared.
It is assumed that the actress and the musician failed to conceive a child in a natural way. Web users disagree: someone believes that celebrities have resorted to the services of a surrogate mother, others insist that the next IVF procedure turned out to be a success, while others do not doubt that Diaz carried the baby herself. Perhaps someday the actress will tell about this difficult time for her, but for now she is trying to enjoy the long-awaited meeting with her first child.
