How to ruin a first date
'25.04.2017'
After the first date is usually clear: there will be a continuation or quickly forget and move on. But sometimes it happens that it is difficult to decide. If one or more of the points written below happened on your first date, there will most likely not be a second date.
1. Swearing on a first date
And it doesn't matter what it was - a small showdown or full-scale hostilities, you need to try very hard to arrange this from the very beginning. After all, you have not even begun to rub against each other! Not a very good sign and a bad start ...
2. He does not respect your taste.
“Ugh ... how can you like that? Did you hear their latest album? Well, disgusting same! ”. If he lacks tact and cleverness, he is silent, even if he has other preferences, imagine that in such a tone he will start talking about something important for you. Do you need it?
3. He does not want a relationship, but to catch his breath
You think and say that you are ready for a full-fledged relationship, but he also declares that he only recently broke up with his ex and is not ready for a serious relationship. That's good - goodbye!
4. You were joking, and he was upset
All people have a different sense of humor, and there may be different nuances. It is bad when a person has no sense of humor. With such a person forget about the ease and carefree fun. Just run!
5. No spark - no flame!
Looks like cute. It seems not stupid. And you sit from the very beginning of the date and look at the clock. You are not interested now - it will only get worse.
6. Everything was frighteningly strange
Spilled tea - 2 times. Accidentally hit their foreheads - three times. Sitting on a chair, he missed and made the whole bar laugh, but not you, because at that very moment you dropped your phone on the floor. Better just go home and stay away from each other, closer than 5 meters.
7. Both of you at parting cost duty phrases
“It was nice to meet you”, “it was fun”, “can we repeat it?” means - it was cute, but no more. It is not worth repeating what cannot be continued.
8. You laughed at the cops, and then it turned out that he was a cop too
“Oh no, I didn't mean you. You are not like that. They are different ... ”. Yes, it turned out inconvenient. If he doesn't have an excellent sense of humor, it's over!
9. Some of you smell like sweat
And it's good if it's from people at the next table. And it is very… very bad if then it stinks from you or from him. Whoever it is - there will be no continuation.
10. Gone to the phone and not out
You can safely get up and leave with a calm heart forever, if he without good reason went deep into his phone. This also speaks of the young man’s bad manners, and that he is not interested in you.
Of course, all these moments depend on many factors and everything may have a reason, but if this all happened to you on the first date, it makes sense to think about the prospects of the second. And if you come across the only one that met all 10 points - run quickly, not worrying too much about finding a direction!
