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What successful people do differently and how to take an example from them

Sergey Evelev

writer, TV and radio host

'16.09.2019'

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Why do some rush forward in life, like a steam locomotive, as if they are not affected by everything that inhibits others? There are several main reasons.

They set goals for themselves. Huge, unattainable, far-reaching. And then they rush to them, no matter what.

They create a system that allows them to move in a given direction, or use an existing one that has proven its stability. Be it McDonald's or a hospital where everyone knows what to do. The system puts everyone in their places. And if it is good, then the result will not be long in coming.

They are responsible to themselves (not parents, not friends, not employers) for every day and everything that was done and not done in it.

They do not scold themselves for the unfulfilled, because anyone can not run, not be in time, not reach. But they praise themselves for what they have done: no matter how insignificant this little step was, it was perfect. Laziness, inability, timidity were overcome, even if it happened only once. It was, and therefore worthy of praise, and should be noted.

They surround themselves with like-minded people and gradually fenced off from everyone who moves in a different direction. Those others, wonderful, cute, smart and educated (sometimes even friends and relatives) go the wrong way and not for that. They need to be blessed and follow their own path. Otherwise, they will pull to the bottom like an anchor. You are not on the way with them. And there is nothing terrible, offensive or unfair: everyone has their own way.

They fall more often, but rise faster.

They are not afraid to take risks, realizing that all victories are built on a foundation that at first seems to everyone to be unsteady, dangerous, and inappropriate. More risk - more chances to win. Not everyone can take risks and the degree of risk tolerance is different for everyone.

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They are not guided by the opinions of others, especially if they are those who follow a different road. They only listen to the point of view of those who have gone their own way and achieved what they want to achieve: financial and psychological freedom, self-confidence, the right to manage their time at their own discretion.

And, perhaps, the most important thing: they divide what is happening in their life into two groups of events. In one group is what they can control (reaction to their own emotions, plans, speed, assessment of what happened, mood, speech, etc.). In another, there are a million phenomena and people whom they cannot control: weather, news on television, wars and nightmares on the international stage, the economy of states, the health and mood of others, opinions of others on any topic. They hear everything that is happening, but they filter it, not allowing unnecessary garbage to clog their heads, litter it. They do not participate in stupid disputes, talk about anything, do not spread gossip, do not use other people's weaknesses and do not allow others to play on their nerves for their own pleasure.

What is written is not a scientific work and not a thesis on how to succeed in life. Rather, it is a quick analysis of how successful people differ from everyone else and what makes them successful. There have always been and will be a minority: this requires a considerable amount of energy, spent exclusively in the right direction, concentrated on one's own growth - more spiritual than physical.

Neither school nor institute teach such subjects. School and institute are workers' farm. There they train and prepare for life in teams of those people who will carry out what is entrusted for payment. They are paid for loyalty, knowledge, patience and work in favor of the owners of the enterprise. And this is wonderful, because the world is on this. True, these people are not always its pushers, troublemakers, creators of new technologies, progenitors of incredible ideas with their subsequent embodiment. But not everyone can be violinists, cooks, or tankers. Other hands are also needed, performing various and equally important daily functions. Here are teachers, bus drivers, dispatchers, programmers, salespeople, and auxiliary workers in the store.

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Can any person become successful if they weren’t yesterday?

Can. Let him reread at least what was written above and begin - no matter how slowly - to penetrate the world of successful and ambitious people and learn from them. Look at them (not what houses they live in or what cars they drive), listen to them, ask questions, attend seminars where they speak, read books they have written. Trying to absorb what they are infused with. It will not be easy, and sometimes even too incredible to believe it. But, most likely, they are reality, not a chimera. And if we want to be at least somewhat similar to them, we have to learn, we have to change, we have to adapt to a new lifestyle.

Good luck to everyone on the hard road to success.

And if questions arise along the way, they can and should be asked. There are always people nearby who know the answer.

Personally, I think so.

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