What Russian women do wrong on their first date: the opinion of foreign men
'21.02.2020'
Source: Clever
Many Russian girls consider it a great success to establish a romantic relationship with a guest from abroad. But often already on the first date, situations arise because of which the foreigner refuses further meetings, writes "Smart".
Treat a man like an ATM
The main stumbling block between a Western man and a Russian woman, the owner of a pizza chain in Rome, an Italian under the nickname Alessandro, considers money. He, like many other Europeans, still cannot accept the fact that "you have to pay for Russian women everywhere."
On one of the online forums, he wrote the following: “... When I first invited her for a date, it was especially difficult for us to agree: we have different ideas about the relationship between a man and a woman, mainly money. I invited her to dinner and at the end I felt and realized that she was waiting for me to pay. What an obligation for a man. I didn’t like it, because it works and can pay for itself! ”
Alessandro told compatriots that he was ready to no longer meet this girl. But the other, whom he soon met, at the first date behaved in exactly the same way. “You're a man, so you have to pay,” she said. Alessandro himself explains that he really does not like Russian girls treat him like an ATM. But that is exactly so.
At the same forum, an American using the nickname Chris said that he, too, was shocked at his first date with a Russian lady in a similar situation. He came to a meeting in a cafe, and the girl was already there with her friend. When she left, Chris was finally able to chat with the person who interested him. At the end of the evening, she said that in Russia the gentleman was paying for dinner and Chris was ready to do it. But it turned out that he had to fork out and her friend’s dinner too, everything was included in the general check. When asked by an American why he needs to pay for a stranger, a Russian woman was very offended. Chris never met her again.
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Do not want to talk about sex
On a popular dating site, a Brazilian under the nickname Gabriel wrote that while in Russia he went on a few dates with local girls and realized that they all did not suit him at all. He has no forbidden topics in his country. However, when at dinner the Brazilian tried to find out from the Russians their sexual preferences, they made serious and offended faces and left. Gabriel does not understand why on the first date you can not talk about it? He does not drag the girl to his room, but simply tries to get to know her better. However, for the Russians, this looks offensive. But then it can turn out to be much worse when they lie down together on the bed and are not satisfied with each other.
Sanjeev from India shared a similar deplorable experience. Knowing English well, he scattered all evening in front of a beautiful Russian young lady in compliments. Indians express their reverence for women in this way. But after dinner, a Russian woman told him that no matter how much he persuaded her, she would not sleep with him on her first date, and she had nothing to say about sex at the table. It is unpleasant.
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Excessive use of perfumes and cosmetics
In 2013, an article by the young French journalist Alexandre Debouté, who first visited Moscow, was published in the glossy men's magazine Lui, which has been published in Paris from 1963 until now. Among other things, he talked about two dates with Russian girls. The first lady on the spot struck him with her bright makeup with false eyelashes and especially huge red lips. They contrasted with the walls of the restaurant, and the young man experienced visual discomfort, because of which he could not enjoy the beauty of the lady, nor the comfort of the establishment. He did not dare to call her again.
The second girl was a student, a journalist met her near her institute and saw that she hardly used makeup. But on a date, a Russian woman came in a fragrant cloud of some very sharp perfumes, to which the smell of cheap hair spray was mixed. The journalist immediately got a headache from this, and he could not maintain any conversation, because he could not remove the migraine. Debot expressed sincere regret that, although Russian girls are beautiful, they have big problems using perfumes and cosmetics. It was they who did not allow him to somehow discern the woman herself behind this excess.
