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An American woman fell in love with a bridesmaid at her wedding and now they live in a threesome

'17.03.2019'

Source: Medialeaks

The girl from the USA told how a casual conversation with the future bridegroom changed her life and plunged polyamory into the realm. She always felt discomfort due to the fact that she liked girls, so on the eve of her wedding, she honestly confessed to the groom. The guy decided to support his beloved, but did not even suspect that he himself will find another love.

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The American Carolyn Henry proved by her own example that there are no obstacles on the way to true love. The girl told the Daily Star that she grew up in a Christian family, where non-traditional relationships were considered something wrong, writes Medialeaks. Because of this, she felt discomfort, as she was often attracted to the female sex, and the relationship with the guys never really developed. Under pressure from society, Carolyn found herself a beautiful young man, Justin, with whom they had been in touch since childhood. After a long time, the couple decided to have a wedding.

But Carolyn says that craving for girls, which she hid from her future spouse, gave her moral discomfort. Then she decided to confess to her fiancé about his secret predilection, and, fortunately the girls, he took him rather calmly.

I shared my feelings with my current husband, and he casually said, "Well, you can just meet the girl on the side." My head just exploded - I didn’t even think that honesty would help.

When Carolyn began searching for her new girlfriend, she learned about polyamory. Polyamoric relationships imply that one person can start a love relationship with two or more partners, but only on the condition that all participants in the relationship know about it and agree with this choice. Polyamors often say that they have one regular partner with whom, for example, they live together, and in the meantime they may have another boyfriend or girlfriend with whom they enjoy their time. But it also often happens that such couples can live together, go on trips or do the usual business for couples.

It is important to note that polyamory, most likely, is not about the format of relations, but about worldview. That is, people with polyamorous views may be in a monogamous relationship or have no relations at all, but they share the point of view that they lack one partner to feel happy, and this is normal. That's exactly what Carolyn thought.

Once, Henry stumbled upon a Tumblr microblogging girl named Lana. Soon they had a fascinating conversation, after which Carolyn understood that she was in love. But then there was one obstacle: her new beloved lived on the other side of the ocean, in Northern Ireland, so they had to wait months for them before the first meeting. And for the first time, they only met at the wedding of Carolyn and Justin.

She [Lana] flew to our wedding as a bridesmaid, and it was awesome! It was the first time we met in real life ... It was the best in every sense of the word, the best day of my life. I remember all of us, a little drunk, we just walked in circles, laughed and sang. I treasured every moment of this day, and although I am sad that everything is behind, I will never forget it!

First, the relationship between Carolyn and Lana developed separately, without the participation of Justin. But soon the trio realized that spending time together was even more interesting. They have feelings for each other, so now they build a relationship of three.

 

First, the relationship between Carolyn and Lana developed separately, without the participation of Justin. But soon the trio realized that spending time together was even more interesting. They have feelings for each other, so now they build a relationship of three.

Carolyn says their relationship is similar to V: Justin and Lana are two sticks, and the girl herself is the corner that connects them. After the wedding, Lana returned home to Northern Ireland, but constantly arrives to her lovers in a common house, where they all have fun together. Carolyn says they have no problem with this.

While she [Lana] was here, it was not at all difficult. We were all taking turns at the center of the bed — the best place in polyamorous relationships. And when she comes back, we have plans to go on dates together and separately ... Seeing both my partners together, holding hands, hugging is amazing, and I'm just happy to see them so happy!

The only difficulty they all face is society. Despite the fact that polyamor has long existed and has been practiced by many couples, many people perceive this not as a healthy relationship, but as a betrayal. Carolyn admits that she has repeatedly tried to explain that no one in a pair considers herself offended. But friends claim that the girl is cheating on her husband, and the appearance of Lana in their family is proof that Justin is not enough for her. Fortunately, the family and close friends of the couple have a different opinion.

It took me a long time before I felt comfortable and told someone about my polyamorous relationships, but everyone took the news very well. Especially my mom! She used to say that there is no way for someone to love both sexes, that people should choose someone one. But when I explained the situation and she saw how happy I was, she changed her mind. When Lana was in the states, my family and my husband's family fell in love with her.

The girl publishes numerous photos in her instagram and shares how well these three spend time together. Carolyn has her own video blog on YouTube, where she tells in detail about the personal experience of polyamorous relationships and gives advice on how to build them correctly.

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