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How the daughter of the president of Kyrgyzstan destroys stereotypes

'15.04.2017'

Source: Meduza

Twenty-year-old artist and blogger Aliya Shagieva опубликовала in social networks a photo in which she breastfeeds her newborn son Tahir. The picture was accompanied by her reflections on the perception of the female body, the cult of motherhood and the right to openly breast feed a child. This is not the first such post by Shagiyeva - before and after the birth of the child she published on Facebook and Instagram the statuses on the rights of women. Medusa tells how the daughter of the president of Kyrgyzstan promotes ideas bodypositive and equality - and how its readers react to it.

Who is Aliya Shagieva?

The youngest daughter of Kyrgyz President Almazbek Atambayev is 20 years old. She became known in social networks as an artist. Shagieva trying hard Do not advertise the connection with the head of the republic.

Alia Wrotethat all her life she called herself the mother’s last name and was going to change her passport in order to “not see interest in me because of her family ties”. She said that even at school, knowing the answer, she was embarrassed to raise her hand - “if only someone had not thought that I would show off.” Social networks she, according to her, seeks to use, not for self-promotion, but for talking about "social difficulties and easel creativity". Almazbek Atambayev also does not discuss his daughter in public, although he does not hide her family ties - Sputnik news agency published several photos of Atambayev with his family, provided by the presidential press service; was on them and Shagiev.

Shagieva is engaged in graphics and studies at the Roerich Art School in St. Petersburg. She is saidthat a few years ago she did not plan to become an artist, but rather thought about the profession of a plastic surgeon. In November, Aliya laid out on Instagram comparing two of your drawings - 2011 and 2016 of the year - with the words: “I’m sure that many of you can draw better than this? on the left)) Never despair! ”.

About his wedding Aliya Shagieva also announced in social networks - by this time she and her husband have met for several years. how пишет It, Konstantin 25, he is a programmer, and they met Shagieva on the Internet. She admitted that she didn’t immediately decide to publish wedding photos, as her husband is not Kyrgyz: "Thanks to everyone who understands that nationality is just a formality, and there are no restrictions for bright feelings." The wedding itself was modest: on her invited total 30 guests. In March, 2017, the couple had a son, who was named Tair.

An activist or a young mother?

Through 3 weeks after the birth of the child, the girl posted on the social network a small essay about motherhood and photosin which she, sitting in the passenger seat of the car, breastfeeds her son. The snapshot gathered almost 5 thousands of likes on Instagram and sparked a lot of discussion. Now frankly negative comments on this post Shagiyeva removed, but several critical comments left.

A few hours after the publication of the picture with the feeding girl laid out even more courageous photos, where she also feeds the child, and explained in detail why it is important for her to publish such photos and fight double standards. “Women's breasts are not an object of vulgarity and indecency, as most of us think. For a very long time, people have forgotten about its true purpose and turned it into an object of pleasing the eyes of men, Shagieva wrote. - Society turns breasts into an object of sexuality, attractiveness, and then condemns women who resort to plastic surgery due to the fact that their breasts are small / "not so" shaped / with large nipples. <...> Society says that motherhood is wonderful, but it says “wow, shame on her” when looking at a nursing mother. It's funny, isn't it? "

The artist recalled that even during pregnancy wrote "The long text that the female body should not be subject to sexualization." She said that she was surprised by the number of grateful messages from women who are faced with such pressure. At the same time, conservative commentators compared feeding with physiological processes that cause disgust ("That's right. But let's still shit in public. The same natural process"), and tried shame a girl (“She’s putting her father in jeopardy. Tomorrow, people will say - I couldn’t raise my daughter, how will you lead the country”, “Do not disgrace the president. Shame, you have no shame and you have no mind”).

The girl is not confused. “I will absolutely calmly reach my chest anywhere, when my child is hungry, be it a shopping center, car salon or a bench in a public park. I will be an example for other nursing mothers who have been driven into the inconvenient framework of a patriarchal society, ” summarized Shagiev.

What else is it criticized for?

Shagiyeva goes for a lot: tattoos, creativity and marriage with a man of a different nationality, but primarily for an active feminist position.

The most acute reaction was caused by several photos of Shagieva in her underwear: the media responded to them with headlines "The President's Naked Daughter" и "Scandalous Princess". On one of these pictures the girl is in the 40 week of pregnancy - but many people consider attempts to talk about the female body in the context of motherhood immodest and outrageous.

She stressed that ideas about modesty and decency changed over time: "In the Victorian era, for example, it was immodest to show ankles, in some countries it is" indecent "in our age." The girl also offered to think about why the word “whore” only condemns women. "Men have the right to acquire sexual experience, but women do not, because to be a woman is to be not completely human, it means to have less rights and it means to belong to a man."

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