Nine habits that will piss anyone off
'01.06.2021'
Source: Rambler
It’s very easy for a modern person to lose his temper: there are so many annoying factors in a big city that you have to make efforts to maintain your own emotional balance, notes "Rambler".
It turned out that not all unpleasant habits arise from bad education or because of the harmfulness of character - sometimes people have good reasons to do exactly the way they do it. What is the matter?
9 habits that can drive anyone crazy, but they can be explained (and therefore accepted and forgiven).
1. Slow motion in a stream of people walking at the same speed
A person who moves slower than other participants in the flow annoys everyone. It is believed that everyone should go equally fast - but no one has written or announced such rules. Why are we annoyed? Because we are herd animals. Next time, when you overtake a slow pedestrian, think: for what reason is it so important for you personally to move at a common speed? And why is this person completely not interested where everyone is in such a hurry?
2. Dirty dishes in the sink
Perhaps there are no people who would love to wash dishes: everyone has heard of them, but no one has ever met such lucky people personally. The problem with unwashed dishes is this: if we eat heavily, serotonin is produced in the body, which makes us lie down on the sofa in a state of blissful slumber and do nothing. And then there are any other matters - and the matter never comes to the dishes.
3. Too many spirits
Sometimes it seems that people overturn half a bottle of perfume on themselves half asleep - and when they discover this, they pour out the rest there with grief and frustration. Any, even the best perfumes can cause an allergy attack and a severe headache, so you should still spare the receptors of others. Too many perfumes are often sprayed upon by people with hormonal problems and those who are experiencing depression - in this state, the sensitivity to smells is greatly reduced.
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4. Loud telephone conversations in a public place
No one is interested in listening to the details of someone else's intimate life, but sometimes there’s simply nowhere to go, so we are forced to follow the unfoldment of the dramatic plot of the stranger’s personal troubles. It turns out that at least half of our annoyance about this is due to the inability to hear the dialogue completely - we only hear replicas of one side, but we cannot evaluate the answers of the other side. The brain evaluates such a half-scenario as incorrect - and sends us to look for a more complete picture for understanding.
5. Distance too short with strangers
We are considered a nation with an average temperament - we need a relatively large personal space, and if someone does not observe it, we assess this as a violation of our borders. Some people have an inherent difference - the structure of their brain from nature is such that they cannot understand whether they cause discomfort with touch or too close contact. If this is your case, just remember - a distance of at least a meter is considered comfortable.
6. The manner of knocking with your fingers, sorting through something or clicking the handle
Many of us do not even notice that we cannot sit or stand without moving at all. We shake our feet, move our fingers, draw a pencil on paper or perform other actions that can infuriate others. The cause of this annoying behavior may be attention deficit disorder or an autism spectrum disorder.
7. Voice messages in instant messengers
They are convenient for the one who sends them - and often become a headache and a source of irritation for those who receive them. But some people simply cannot force themselves to call and have a conversation in dialogue mode - this is a feature of millennials, for example. Should they be blamed for fear of a telephone conversation?
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8. The habit of looking at someone else's phone
We automatically turn our eyes to a bright or luminous object, especially if at this moment we have nothing to do with ourselves — for example, during a trip on the subway. Few manage to resist the obvious urge of the brain to look into someone else's screen - if you do not want someone to read or see something personal, do not use your smartphone in a public place. Listen, for example, to music at this time.
9. Clicking the joints of the fingers
Adults usually scare children that they will develop arthritis or have holes in their palms if they click their fingers too actively. Recent studies show that overall this is a pretty harmless activity, so you can simply ignore this habit of loved ones.
Which of these habits do you personally have? What infuriates you in others?
