5 things for which you are too old in 40 years
'03.03.2019'
Source: Rambler
Youth is a beautiful appearance, slimness, health. Growing up, we are worried about skin fading, deterioration of vision or the appearance of gray hair. People can not accept the fact that old age is inevitable and in every possible way try to extend the young years.
Someone tries to get young: wears things that aren’t figure, makes youth haircuts that are completely unsuitable for face status or oval, uses bright makeup and much more, writes Rambler.
Once, by accepting themselves and their age, people realize that there are things for which they are too old in 40 years.
1. Be ashamed of your desires
Society and fashion impose their opinion on us. With age, people understand that they need to listen more to themselves and their desires, and not to others. You must wear clothes that are comfortable and enjoyable, read what is interesting, go to your favorite places, and not popular ones. Life passes quickly, and you need to have time to enjoy it, and not follow the new trends of society.
2. Worry about the opinions of others
Doing what pleases us prevents public opinion. We care too much about what strangers think of us. Often it becomes a discovery, the fact that strangers practically do not pay attention to each other. Therefore, uncertainty is not justified by anything other than their own convictions.
3. Save unnecessary things
The equipment breaks down, the clothes become small, and we continue to put it all together in the hope of losing weight and repairing. As a result, the house becomes not a cozy family place, but a large warehouse of unnecessary things that clutter up the space. We hope that all of this can be useful for us or will be used on the notorious “rainy day”. May be enough? It's time to get rid of things that have been gathering dust on the upper shelves for years.
4. Communicate with unpleasant people
It was in our youth that we could tolerate obsessive boyfriends, talkative girlfriends and boorish bosses, occasionally asking ourselves the question “What am I doing here?”. In 40 years, people respect themselves and their time more, trying not to waste it. It is necessary to spend it with pleasure, but not so that then you have to think about sessions with a psychotherapist.
5. Afraid to spend money on yourself
40 years - a great age in order to realize their needs and the fact that for themselves do not need to regret anything. Too much was lost in his youth. Money was saved by all means in order to learn the profession, to acquire housing, to raise and learn children. In the fourth ten this is all already there, and the children will soon leave the parental home and become independent. It's time to think about yourself!
Do you feel your age? Is it easy for you to take it?
