5 dating sites where Americans are looking for a mate: personal experience
'02.06.2020'
Everyone wants to find a loved one. Both men and women. This desire does not depend on age, gender, nationality and on what point in the world a person lives. Channel Author "I live in America" on Yandex.Zen Elena has been living in the USA for over 10 years, having got married after meeting on a dating site. She told how Americans get to know each other. Further - from the first person.
Americans can get to know each other in churches, interest clubs, such as hiking. But most often they get to know each other on sites, and I will tell you which ones. Perhaps some of these sites you know. This article I would address first of all to those who are 50+, and I will tell you where the Americans of this age group meet.
Where Americans don't meet
Most Americans (I will not tell you about the whole of America) do not meet on the streets. Firstly, because they spend a lot of time driving. Those who walk the streets - use public transport - and most likely don't have a car. In America, this suggests a thought ... Vague doubts begin to plague, so to speak. Here, of course, depends on which part of the United States a person lives. If these are not large cities, such as New York or Chicago, then not having a car simply will not work.
“A car in America is not a luxury, but a means of transportation,” Ilf and Petrov noted, and since then nothing has changed in this regard.
If a person is 50+ and does not have a car, it means that he does not have money for a car, which means that he has no job, or he could not pass on his license, which immediately casts doubt on his intellectual abilities. Driving in America is not like playing the piano. It's almost as natural as breathing. Everyone has been driving since the age of 16. High school students drive to school in their cars.
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Acquainted at work is not accepted. They work at work. They value the workplace. God forbid, a man will show attention to a female colleague that she does not like. They can also fire the poor fellow. Well, if the police do not say. Therefore, at work, no, no.
If this is a small town, where everyone is in sight, everyone knows each other, then no one will just get to know each other. Suddenly it won't work. Everyone will know. A man would rather go on dates to other towns. In my own town - no way.
Of course, there are bars everywhere. A certain audience goes there, as you understand. There is even a special term in America for such meetings. One night stand - meeting for one night. They don't look for a serious relationship in bars. This is clear.
Americans meet on dating sites
1. The first most famous site is https://www.match.com/
This is a paid site for both men and women. The longer you choose to subscribe, the cheaper.
On this site you can browse the gallery. And like the photos that the site offers you.
You can get to know this site around the world, but Americans are mostly looking for a couple in America. Closer to your place of residence.
Be careful: if you just registered and you immediately receive a message from a supposedly just registered user, do not believe him. 99,9%, that is scam. Sooner or later he will ask for money. He / she can live in general and not in America. Scammers (scammers) are on all sites. Catch the gullible.
Therefore, take anyone as a fake until you meet in real life.
2. The second most popular site https://www.eharmony.com/
This is also a paid site for both men and women. And so is the story with the price - the longer the subscription period, the cheaper.
This site has one feature. During registration, you need to answer a huge number of questions, and the site itself will pick up a pair that suits you, according to your answers.
You cannot see the entire photo catalog. Only those options that the site sends.
Scammers can also be, but their profiles are monitored and deleted. Do not rush to immediately reply to a message. Wait a couple of days. During this time, it may turn out that the profile is blocked. The site blocks suspicious profiles.
If you are on the free version, you cannot reply to messages and see photos of those who wrote.
3. Free popular American site. https://pof.com/
Plenty Of Fish - translation, like "There are many fish in the sea."
The registration form must indicate the presence of the car. There may be a very different people. How lucky.
4. Another free dating site https://www.okcupid.com/
Get ready that immediately after registration a flurry of all nonsense will begin.
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5. Americans who want to find a woman from Eastern Europe or Asia go to https://www.elenasmodels.com/
On this site, men pay. For women for free. The site automatically determines your location. You will not be able to live in America and register as a resident of Russia or Ukraine.
If you live in the US, the site will place you in a group of women who already live in the US. On the one hand, an American man doesn't have to pay a lot of money to bring his fiancée to America. And this seems to be good. But on the other hand, they understand that women who already live in the United States have at least a green card and experience of living in the country. They “cannot be fooled by chaff”, and they cannot fool their heads with beautiful conversations.
I also heard that the approval of your profile photo must be professional. But it seems that for the time of quarantine this requirement was canceled. Specify.
Original column published on the blog. "I live in America" on Yandex.Zen
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