10 annoying habits to get rid of
'04.01.2018'
Source: Life hacker
Body language is sometimes more eloquent than verbal communication. Experienced psychologists can easily determine our condition by scanning facial expressions, the smallest changes in voice and body position. Some of our gestures simply annoy the interlocutor. Edition Life hacker compiled a list of 10 gestures that should be discarded.
- Crossed arms
Much has already been said on this subject. In all psychology textbooks, crossed arms are interpreted as an attempt to withdraw into oneself, to close. And although sometimes a person accepts such a posture simply because he does not know where to put his hands, it is better to avoid such a position so as not to arouse distrust in the interlocutor. Try to keep your hands in front of you, best of all - palms up.
- Hair curling
In men, frequent contact with the hair is considered to be a sign of uncertainty. When a girl pulls strands of hair, it can be a signal of flirting and a flirtatious mood. In any case, if you do not want to give the impression of a suspicious or frivolous person, try to avoid this gesture.
3. Foot scuffing
Gait is extremely important for creating the image of a successful person. Senile shuffling still no one beautified. If you have less 80, we advise you to get rid of this ridiculous habit.
4. Slouch
Stooped people give the impression of insecure and overly modest. In addition, poor posture harms not only the back, but also the entire body.
5. Absent-mindedness
If during negotiations you now and then look out the window, check the time or mail on your mobile, this clearly will not give you status in the eyes of your colleagues. Even if you are absent-minded by nature and it is difficult for you to concentrate on the conversation for a long time, try to fight this habit, it is regarded as disrespect for the interlocutor.
6. Stone face
A smile is the easiest way to win over a person. She demonstrates openness and affection. Allow your face to repeat what your interviewee is talking about - you can raise your eyebrows in surprise, frown, or nod. The main thing - do not sit with a straight face. Let the other person feel that his speech has an effect on you.
7. Lack of eye contact
It is important not to overdo it. Too long and a close look can make your partner feel uncomfortable.
8. Fixed posture
Stone stillness may say that you are bored to death. Try to adopt some gestures and poses of the interlocutor.
9. Excessive gestures
In moderation, gesticulation adds vitality to the conversation and helps the other person to concentrate. The main thing here - do not go too far and do not turn the conversation into a pantomime.
10. Matching verbal and non-verbal signs
At the subconscious level, all people can recognize falsehood and insincerity by non-verbal signals. Even if your interlocutor did not watch all the seasons of “Theory of Lie”, the discrepancy between what your body says and what you say will leave it with a vague feeling of hostility and distrust towards you.
