10 incredible ways to become a better wife
'10.04.2019'
Source: delfi.lv
When we are going to get married, we dream of a happy marriage. But living together “happily ever after” is only possible when we make an effort. Here are ten ways to become a better wife and make your dream come true.
Being a great wife is easy. All you need is to treat your husband with respect. Keep track of his needs and pay attention to what makes him happy. Communicate with him and develop an atmosphere of trust, writes delfi.lv with reference to Womanitely.
1. Respect your husband
Men flourish with respect, but they wither when their wife does not believe in them. Respect works wonders and improves your relationship. Tell your husband that you appreciate his work and homework. Do not grumble, otherwise you will act like his mother. To treat a man as a child is disrespectful. Finally, don't embarrass him publicly by telling stories that make fun of him. Respect your husband.
2. Be worthy of trust
If your actions are always trustworthy, then you can avoid stress and negativity that undermine the relationship. People lose trust in different ways, not only by deceiving.
The key to building trust is simple: be where you said and do what you were going to do. Do not say that you go for milk if you have other plans.
3. Initiate proximity
Although we often hear how important sex is for men, it is extremely important for both partners. Only more frequent closeness can bond your relationship, and on your initiative too.
Try to start the day with a sex talk, so that the man thinks about it for the next hours. Did your evening television show get boring? Click on a pause, tell your man how much you appreciate him, kiss him firmly, and then turn on the show again. You will be glad you did, and he will love the surprises.
4. Trust your husband
When you mistrust your husband, you destroy the very foundation of your marriage. Demonstrating trust is easy.
Do not take his phone and do not check his messages. Do not go into his computer. When he wants to watch a game with friends, play football or go hunting, be glad that he has good friends.
5. Communicate
Do not keep secrets from your husband. Hiding things means that you either don’t feel you can trust him or are embarrassed about something shameful. Maybe you lost some decoration? Maybe you are afraid to discuss the topic of money? Any little things can be big problems, so communicate with each other.
6. Enjoy a pleasant silence.
Women on average utter 20 000 words per day. Men are an average of 7000 words. This phenomenon has a biological cause, but do not use science as an excuse. Men need some peace and quiet. Stay in touch with friends you can talk to. And remember that your man loves you more than he tells you about it.
7. Be thankful
Be thankful for your husband. Be thankful for your home. Be thankful for your work and children. Women who constantly want more - the best things, a rich house and a luxury car - send a message of discontent to a man, and this undermines love. Gratitude is also a manifestation of the respect the husband needs.
8. Cook
This may sound like a cliche, but it is important to cook your husband's favorite food. Cooking for someone else makes you think about this person with love, and sharing a meal is an intimate experience. If you try to cook his favorite dishes and master new recipes for you, then you show that you care about his well-being.
9. Take it
If you really want to become a better wife, be a woman who is not trying to change her man. Take it as it is. After all, you know that they themselves are not perfect.
Accepting a husband is the best way to show respect for him. Of course, exceptions to this rule are situations involving verbal or physical violence, addictions, and criminal activity.
10. Take care of yourself
Often husbands and wives stop trying to be attractive after the wedding, but this is a mistake. If you loved this man so much that you were ready to marry him, then love him as much as to show yourself in the best possible way. Be healthy, eat right and exercise. Take the time to tidy up your hair and apply makeup. Because of this, you will feel better, like your husband.
