10 stupid habits that need to part with 35 years
'13.10.2018'
Source: Lady.mail.ru
If the habit is second nature, then this hot dozen is definitely not for us. Delete gradually and systematically.
Unlike addiction to alcohol or, say, gambling, they do not destroy life, but they clearly do not do better, rightly notes lady.mail.ru.
Gossip
Like a classic, they talked about new amendments to the law, about a theatrical production, and then it was about the Karenins, and everyone revived. I cannot vouch for the accuracy of the quotation, but the picture is clear without it. We do not discuss anything so passionately, so zealously, as rumors and speculation about others.
They say her husband Lenka changes. And she herself - an affair with the head. And Sveta said that she was going to see an optometrist, but Lyudka suspected that she would go to a gynecologist! And once again go on maternity leave, it is necessary to have a conscience. Well, or an optometrist to her to see the second strip. Haha
But the love of gossip plays a bad joke - we surround ourselves with those who occasionally wash the bones of ourselves. In addition, all gossip can reach the object, especially if the dialogue was written. Spoil the life of another person. Anyway, it significantly narrows the range of interests. Though addictive.
Spying on annoying people on social networks
I hate blogger N.! Did you see what you wrote yesterday? And the day before yesterday? Read disgusting, horror! The horror, but every now and then we go to the pages of very doubtful characters: a nasty colleague, his former, former girlfriend of a current partner, mother-in-law, an archeneous girlfriend.
We look for errors in the posts, we believe in bile about the photos - and so every day. Plays mood, spend time and resources. But on the Internet so many cats!
Runaway shopping
On the one hand, as old as the world. From everyday adversity will save a new tint for lips, from a quarrel with a friend - spirits from a limited collection, from disagreement with a partner - a trip to Ikea (the pan is heavier on the shopping list first). On the other hand, all this results in unnecessary waste and unnecessary things. Yes, and the problem does not solve. Five minutes of inspiration is not worth it.
The habit of pleasing yourself with delicious high-calorie food is from the same series. But a book, film or a walk as an antidepressant is quite good.
Claims to parents
Yes, yes, we all know - Mom didn’t love, broke boundaries, didn’t give to dances, called her thick and clumsy. But let's calculate how many years ago it was? Mom has changed for a long time or will never change, so it is useless to extract resentment from the chest. And you can deal with the consequences - but not with the mother, with yourself or with the psychologist, as effective.
Demonstrative silence
Offended - do not write and do not pick up the phone, answer dry or do not answer at all. To understand! And realized! And generally speaking! The bad news: this is all passive aggression and a road to nowhere. The good: humanity has invented speech and even writing, it can be perfectly used, explaining what and why offended or upset.
Imitation of interest
Serebryakova exhibition? Oh, amazing, I will definitely go! Festival of raw food cuisine? Curious! Lecture eminent orientalist? Oh, yes, I would love to listen. We are embarrassed to admit that we do not know something. Seem not thin enough, smart, versatile. But the man pretending to be an expert looks pretty sorry. And it feels about the same - as if walking on thin ice and is afraid of slipping.
It is much easier and more honest to admit that you do not understand something at all. Or do not want, because you have a different area of interest. It is funny, but after that it often turns out that your interlocutor did not hear anything about Serebryakova.
Imitation orgasm
This is not so much about sex as about the fear of being yourself in a relationship or the inability to negotiate with a partner. But there are no rules at all, you can set your own.
Saving on yourself
Old tights - go under the pants. Stretched T-shirt - who will see it at home. Manicure - before corporate do. Salad the third day in the fridge - we finish it, it's a pity to throw it away. Brie will not open, leave for guests. All these “oh well, and so it’s okay for me” create a rather sad emotional background of a general dislike for myself.
Self-criticism
I'm so stupid in everything about geography, horror. No, no, for this dress I have thick legs, and in general, like a cow. Well, the mug after lack of sleep ... To whom from loved ones could you weigh out such an intricate compliment? And why is it possible for yourself?
Looking at the opinions of others
It does not matter who it is - girlfriends at work, friends in social networks or fashion bloggers. Interested in - you can take into account, too. Urgently throwing out “flares” or buying “culottes”, losing weight or changing hobbies, because someone has condemned, and just get upset because of criticism and by all means try to earn praise - not at all that strengthens self-confidence.
